"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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she said it, but during sex

blackhatter

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Been seeing this chick for 2 or 3 months now. She hasn't really pulled the "i love you" until the other night.

We were walking home from a party and it just so happens I had a rental car (suv). Feeling a little sauced up and horny, I threw her into the back of the car and ended up having a 30min session with her in the back, drilling the hell out of her.

Right as I was about to come, she gripped my neck and said "I love you". I responded with "I know", feeling very in command at the time. Now this was the first time she said it, but it's also been 3 days since and she hasn't said it since. Was she just loving the sex?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mavrick

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She's either in love with you or loves your spontaneity. Don't change, and don't tell her you love her until she's sober and says it first.
 

Real_Deal

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She loved you pounding her like a sailor in a bar fight thats all.
 

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she dont love you, she love the drilling action dude.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This is how I used to program my women. Just before they came drop a suggestion in their minds. I call it mindfvcking. She was doing her version on you to land you.

I hope she at least got a nut out of all that drilling you did.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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She loved the pounding. But, does she love you? Well, from what I learned when a girl tells you she loves you first she means it. Was she drunk and it was the alcohol talking? Who knows it no big deal. I'd say you got a girlfriend who most likely likes you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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keep drillin her...her feelings will go stronger...
But not let her control your emotions
 

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blackhatter said:
Been seeing this chick for 2 or 3 months now. She hasn't really pulled the "i love you" until the other night.

We were walking home from a party and it just so happens I had a rental car (suv). Feeling a little sauced up and horny, I threw her into the back of the car and ended up having a 30min session with her in the back, drilling the hell out of her.

Right as I was about to come, she gripped my neck and said "I love you". I responded with "I know", feeling very in command at the time. Now this was the first time she said it, but it's also been 3 days since and she hasn't said it since. Was she just loving the sex?
My hero. Just one thing, like the other posters said.. think nothing of it.
 
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