I was talking to this girl I know and we where just chatting and she was telling me about how she doesnt like this guy she is with and she just wants to have fun and how all guys get attached to fast. I was laughing, saying yeah that sucks, and I gave the vibe that I dont get attached. She told me she wants to break up with her bf but she cant do it, because she loves him to much. She told me that her parents dont apporove of the religion that he is, so she doesnt want to upset them anymore, so she said she is trying to go to places that he hangs out with so he can see him with a diffrent guy. I was like yeah i know, like just calm about it.
We have made out in the past. I was 17 when we did now I am 20 so that was three yrs ago though. I never talked to her much after though. Only recently cuz she lives in my building.
So anyway we talk and we start talking about sex and porn, lol, and how she has caught her younger brother watching it and how wierd it is.
She then says that she doesnt feel wierd talking to me about it cuz we are the same age and we are friends. I thought "red flag" in my head when she said friends. BUt her younger brother was there, so maybe she said it because of that or maybe it didnt mean anything, but it could. IDK.
So then she tells me that she doesnt care about how much money a guy has or how many things he has, that she only likes tough guys and she said she wants a man to stand up for her and protect her if somebody said something on the street or if some man said bad things about her. She said she would want a man to protect her if a robber came into the house. She said she doesnt like wusses.
I told her that I dont care about random people on the street, cuz they dont mean anything to me, there nobodies. So if somebody said something that wasnt cool, and I just ignore them. But if I know the person then if you dont take care of your stuff, thats not good.
At first she sounded like she was beating around the bush with the subject of what she wanted, I told her there is nothing to hide, that she was a woman and woman want men to protect them, and its that simple. She said yeah and proceeded to explain what she would want her man to do in diffrent situations of danger. I also told her that I dont go around looking for trouble she said she does and that she likes danger. That a person who goes around trying to prove things really isnt secure in himself. I told her that.
I was shocked, that most women are usually not honest about what they really want and she knew what she wanted, she wasnt confused.
She has been in a lot of fights at school, her younger brother tells me sometimes because I see him around the building. So I know she isnt lying about that.
I am just taken back by all she said. Maybe she actually told me what ALL woman really want at the core.
I remember that at 17 she told me "your hair makes you look dangerous"
Maybe she only likes alpha males and what not, even to this day. I was thinking to myself...thats it...my hair...lol
She said she is with this guy that she is dating only because she knows that he can get into a fight and he will always win, that she needs a strong man that she can lean on. She told me ALL this. I was thinking wow, Im in a friend zone.
I just dont know what to think about after all this.
Her brother tells me everything, he is cool, he told me when I was younger that she liked me.
I'll ask him again just to see what he says.
We have made out in the past. I was 17 when we did now I am 20 so that was three yrs ago though. I never talked to her much after though. Only recently cuz she lives in my building.
So anyway we talk and we start talking about sex and porn, lol, and how she has caught her younger brother watching it and how wierd it is.
She then says that she doesnt feel wierd talking to me about it cuz we are the same age and we are friends. I thought "red flag" in my head when she said friends. BUt her younger brother was there, so maybe she said it because of that or maybe it didnt mean anything, but it could. IDK.
So then she tells me that she doesnt care about how much money a guy has or how many things he has, that she only likes tough guys and she said she wants a man to stand up for her and protect her if somebody said something on the street or if some man said bad things about her. She said she would want a man to protect her if a robber came into the house. She said she doesnt like wusses.
I told her that I dont care about random people on the street, cuz they dont mean anything to me, there nobodies. So if somebody said something that wasnt cool, and I just ignore them. But if I know the person then if you dont take care of your stuff, thats not good.
At first she sounded like she was beating around the bush with the subject of what she wanted, I told her there is nothing to hide, that she was a woman and woman want men to protect them, and its that simple. She said yeah and proceeded to explain what she would want her man to do in diffrent situations of danger. I also told her that I dont go around looking for trouble she said she does and that she likes danger. That a person who goes around trying to prove things really isnt secure in himself. I told her that.
I was shocked, that most women are usually not honest about what they really want and she knew what she wanted, she wasnt confused.
She has been in a lot of fights at school, her younger brother tells me sometimes because I see him around the building. So I know she isnt lying about that.
I am just taken back by all she said. Maybe she actually told me what ALL woman really want at the core.
I remember that at 17 she told me "your hair makes you look dangerous"
Maybe she only likes alpha males and what not, even to this day. I was thinking to myself...thats it...my hair...lol
She said she is with this guy that she is dating only because she knows that he can get into a fight and he will always win, that she needs a strong man that she can lean on. She told me ALL this. I was thinking wow, Im in a friend zone.
I just dont know what to think about after all this.
Her brother tells me everything, he is cool, he told me when I was younger that she liked me.
I'll ask him again just to see what he says.
