so ive been working at my job almost a year, and theres this girl at work. and ive never really started talking to her until the past few weeks. yesterday she says to me, "i want to bring you home to my parents and say "this is Russian2'" i was kind of confused because it was so random. then about an hour later she walks by and gives me a hug *shes never hugged me before* and says, " your so cute i want to take you to prom. so i said, "but wasnt your prom like 2 months ago lol". so later on myspace i add her to my friends list and i say Hey!, whats up?. and she messages me back, "russian my love, how are you dear?!?!. Shes probably a HB 8.5 and never really seemed interested in talking to me other than extremely small talk on what goes where and when.. whats with this random change?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
she randomly likes me now?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Women don't have ON/OFF switches when it comes to finding a man "attractive" or "Relationship Material" like guys do.
For us, she's either hot or not. And there's usually no come back for that. And this elimination usually comes pretty quickly.
Women, on the other hand, have complex DSP algorithms to evaluate a guy's potential, good genes, traits of being a provider, etc... to determine whether or not to go for him.
This makes sense, since they are investing more energy and time than a guy who can simply find other women and spread his genes. For men, it's profitable to decide and act quickly because the ultimate purpose is to distribute his genes as wide as humanly possible (Quoting Rollo Tomassi).
Women can re-evaluate your score based on her current social environment, currently available resources and even her mood. For us, it seems like : What? She "randomly" likes me now?
But from her perspective it's just a natural maneuver based on her resource management.
For us, she's either hot or not. And there's usually no come back for that. And this elimination usually comes pretty quickly.
Women, on the other hand, have complex DSP algorithms to evaluate a guy's potential, good genes, traits of being a provider, etc... to determine whether or not to go for him.
This makes sense, since they are investing more energy and time than a guy who can simply find other women and spread his genes. For men, it's profitable to decide and act quickly because the ultimate purpose is to distribute his genes as wide as humanly possible (Quoting Rollo Tomassi).
Women can re-evaluate your score based on her current social environment, currently available resources and even her mood. For us, it seems like : What? She "randomly" likes me now?
But from her perspective it's just a natural maneuver based on her resource management.
You say you talked with her for the first time two weeks ago... Maybe she liked you from the start but was too shy do take actions... And now that she got to see a part of your personality, but not the whole thing cause it seems like you don't care, she's getting more and more intrest...russian2 said:so ive been working at my job almost a year, and theres this girl at work. and ive never really started talking to her until the past few weeks. yesterday she says to me, "i want to bring you home to my parents and say "this is Russian2'" i was kind of confused because it was so random. then about an hour later she walks by and gives me a hug *shes never hugged me before* and says, " your so cute i want to take you to prom. so i said, "but wasnt your prom like 2 months ago lol". so later on myspace i add her to my friends list and i say Hey!, whats up?. and she messages me back, "russian my love, how are you dear?!?!. Shes probably a HB 8.5 and never really seemed interested in talking to me other than extremely small talk on what goes where and when.. whats with this random change?
The less attention you give, the harder she wants you... Ofcourse there is a saying in Belgium: Drink the soup while it's hot... Meaning: Now that she likes you, go for it tiger, don't waste too much time, you already know she digs you!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Go for it if you are interested.
You will find out in the process anyway.
From your description, it seems that she's into you.
You will find out in the process anyway.
From your description, it seems that she's into you.