she randomly likes me now?

[russian2]

so ive been working at my job almost a year, and theres this girl at work. and ive never really started talking to her until the past few weeks. yesterday she says to me, "i want to bring you home to my parents and say "this is Russian2'" i was kind of confused because it was so random. then about an hour later she walks by and gives me a hug *shes never hugged me before* and says, " your so cute i want to take you to prom. so i said, "but wasnt your prom like 2 months ago lol". so later on myspace i add her to my friends list and i say Hey!, whats up?. and she messages me back, "russian my love, how are you dear?!?!. Shes probably a HB 8.5 and never really seemed interested in talking to me other than extremely small talk on what goes where and when.. whats with this random change?

 

[inerte]

Does it matter? Just enjoy.

 

[Guybrush]

Women don't have ON/OFF switches when it comes to finding a man "attractive" or "Relationship Material" like guys do.

For us, she's either hot or not. And there's usually no come back for that. And this elimination usually comes pretty quickly.

Women, on the other hand, have complex DSP algorithms to evaluate a guy's potential, good genes, traits of being a provider, etc... to determine whether or not to go for him.

This makes sense, since they are investing more energy and time than a guy who can simply find other women and spread his genes. For men, it's profitable to decide and act quickly because the ultimate purpose is to distribute his genes as wide as humanly possible (Quoting Rollo Tomassi).

Women can re-evaluate your score based on her current social environment, currently available resources and even her mood. For us, it seems like : What? She "randomly" likes me now?

But from her perspective it's just a natural maneuver based on her resource management.

 

[Credos]

so ive been working at my job almost a year, and theres this girl at work. and ive never really started talking to her until the past few weeks. yesterday she says to me, "i want to bring you home to my parents and say "this is Russian2'" i was kind of confused because it was so random. then about an hour later she walks by and gives me a hug *shes never hugged me before* and says, " your so cute i want to take you to prom. so i said, "but wasnt your prom like 2 months ago lol". so later on myspace i add her to my friends list and i say Hey!, whats up?. and she messages me back, "russian my love, how are you dear?!?!. Shes probably a HB 8.5 and never really seemed interested in talking to me other than extremely small talk on what goes where and when.. whats with this random change?

You say you talked with her for the first time two weeks ago... Maybe she liked you from the start but was too shy do take actions... And now that she got to see a part of your personality, but not the whole thing cause it seems like you don't care, she's getting more and more intrest...

The less attention you give, the harder she wants you... Ofcourse there is a saying in Belgium: Drink the soup while it's hot... Meaning: Now that she likes you, go for it tiger, don't waste too much time, you already know she digs you!

 

[russian2]

tonight she kept bumping her hips into me when we were talking in a group at work and playing with the phone chord while we talked again.

 

[darkme_legendary]

Go for it if you are interested.
You will find out in the process anyway.
From your description, it seems that she's into you.