"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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She pretended to spit.

Jay25

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So I met this girl and we went on a date, and we were talking about drinking, she told me she once drank a pitcher of beer by herself because no one wanted it, I said something like wow that’s very lady like can’t remember in a joking way.

She made a fake spitting motion at me and I was kind of like wtf, I said to her wtf, she was like she’s only kidding and she finds spitting disgusting, I’m just wondering is this anything to care about, I found it a little disgusting even as a joke. I think I said that’s disgusting hope you’d never do that and she was like of course not it’s disgusting
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Atom Smasher

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I would let it slide and continue to watch her behavior. It was probably a joke gone bad. You used the term "ladylike" in a way that suggested she isn't, so she probably made that motion to correspond with not being ladylike as you suggested.

Free pass but watch for other signs. Could be nothing to worry about.
 

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You got me with the title. I was let down by the actual story.
 

Poonani Maker

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She's probably a normie. I find normies do that motion of spitting on you just because you are redpilled. They don't know why they don't like you, but they just do, cause you don't play fantasy football or follow sports (waste of time) etc etc.
 

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Ahe was making a joke. Nothing to it. You are overthinking.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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