Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Starwolf

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Wondering how you guys would respond to a girl that sends a text with only a dot (".") in it.

some background info about her:
she is 21, kinda narcissistic by nature..she thinks she's super hot and she's always posting new pictures of herself in tight clothing and saying/posting how guys are thirsty for her. ( by looking at the comments she gets from men on fb it's no wonder why she thinks like this )

my relation with her.. not sure. She hates me for the most part and she always tells me that i'm being mean to her. Then if i ignore her long enough..2 ..3 days she starts sending these "dots" via text. To get my attention.. she won't stop until i finally Say "hi" or something.

I did try to ask her out a few times ..but she always flakes.

any ideas?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Give her nothing, take her nowhere. Don't fall into these webs women like her spin.
Delete her number and focus on other chicks.
 

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Starwolf said:
Then if i ignore her long enough..2 ..3 days she starts sending these "dots" via text. To get my attention.. she won't stop until i finally Say "hi" or something.

I did try to ask her out a few times ..but she always flakes.
^^^^ It's not clear as day to you after writing the above?

This is a textbook attention wh0re. And you're the textbook fool who knows this, but after an extra "." or two starts to think maybe there's a possibility for a date... you ask her out and she shoots you down again and again... do you want to continue being that fool who keeps falling for this trick?

Never, ever respond to one of her texts ever again. Even if she writes more than a dot. Cut off her source of attention. She'll go nuts and start going to more extreme measures, at one point maybe even totally convincing you that you have a shot. Don't fall for it. Ignore ignore ignore.
 

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thnx, Needed that!

will delete and move on.
 

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Try ignoring her for 2 or 3 years next time it happens.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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HB: .

Possible translations: I have my period lol.

Just kidding. In all seriousness...

Actual translation: Say something to me my orbiter text buddy. I need some attention, but I'm too lazy to construct full words. I will string you along and then F that tatooed bartender guy instead.

Delete her number. Let her go back to her AW world of highlighted hair, over-tanning, T inder, and I L o ve P I nk sweat pants.
 

Starwolf

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bmxcetera said:
Try ignoring her for 2 or 3 years next time it happens.

I actually did.. for about 9 or 10 months. Somehow she found me on skype.
she asked why I deleted her? I acted like i didn't notice and made up an excuse about changing my phone number and some contacts got lost. (I did a change my number for unrelated reasons). anw, from there we started talking again..

So in a sense i was already moving on..but after the skype convo I thought that this persistence from her side to get my attention was maybe worth a second chance.

I guess this is just an extreme case of an attention wh0re. And I fell for it
 

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Maybe she is worth a shot.

But not until she demonstrates some actual interest.

Do not speak to or text her until and unless that happens.

The "." is bait. Stop rising to it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mike32ct said:
HB: .

Possible translations: I have my period lol.

Just kidding. In all seriousness...
LMAO. That would actually be an awesome comeback.

HB: "."
DJ: "are you having a period?"
 

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Block that ho forever, she be buggin, pfft.
 

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Text her a sad face emoticon with a wink.

Ie. ;(


It means I'm not happy with you but I'm still down with hooking up if you are.
 

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update:

Ignoring her and been getting DOTS for days!.. Dot after dot after Dot Strings of dots! lol.


So serious question. What makes girls do this? attention ok.. but she has so many guys after her. She can get attention wherever she wants.

so why does she want mine?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I think that "." is a Japanese-style emoticon, which are read vertically.

That would mean she's batting her eyelashes at you.

Ignore.
 

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Ok guys ..Lay off the "move on" and "avoid women like this" comments. I can visit some MGTOW forum for that sh*t.

I know she's a stupid spoiled brat Ok, I'm not trying to make her my wife.

I was just thinking, at the end of the day some dude is still f*cking this dumb b*tch.
Now How does he do it? That is what I'm trying to find out.. That's what a lot of us are trying to find out.
 

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Don't ever sell your soul, dignity, sanity or masculinity to get laid.
What we're saying is that this chick seems intent on making you jump through 1000 hoops to access her golden poon, and to focus your energy on women who are genuinely interested in you and would crawl over broken glass to jump on your dyck.
Don't ever try to "figure women out". The truth is she's probably getting azz fvcked by some flat-cap wearing, wannabe drug lord but craves attention from many men.
If you really want to fvck her, try different aspects of game to build her interest but don't make it your sole purpose in life.
Consider it a side project at best and don't get sucked in to her games.
 

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Ignore or....say something completely outrageous next time she sends her dots or winks or whatever, something like "I just shot my load in this girl's ass for the first time last night".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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