"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She Never Called

DonJuanInTrainin

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Alright so I was suppose to chill with this girl yesterday, she even said she's free on Saturday and wanted to see me, so I called her at 2, she didnt answer and called me back said she was in the shower, so then she says she has things to do etc and she asks me if im free after 9, i say i am, she says she'll call me around 9.
So you guessed it she never called. Was this some kind of test or is she just not interested? Do you think i should call her back and confront her or just take the hint and not.
 

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Confront her about it, and if she cant give you a good answer, tell her to stop wasting your time.
 

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same thing ahppened here bro.
except my girl actually called and said "I'm gonna tell u straight up, I made other plans tonight."
she knwos how I am about beign bailed on. I flip. We were supposed to chill friday and then i never called ot setup plans, neither did she.
So i told her sat night was her one last shot to hangout with me.

30 minutes after she called, i just texted ehr saying "You blew it. enjoy your night." ****in dyke.
 
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