She messages me after 3 months

[Who Dares Win]

Lol thanks for the advice dudes. Ive got good game with most chix but admittedly there have been a few who I place great value on and in turn it makes me behave less than ideal.

So basically now after all has been said and done the fact remains that I do want this girl. Some of you have made it obvious that she doesn't want me though and just using me as a fvckstick on the side to boost ego and to fulfil her want for attention and drama.

Do I completely go nc now until she perhaps calls me asking to meet up? If she starts sending more respectful messages do I reply? I know some say leave it but chick is so damn fine and as long as she doesn't consume my life than a potential lay with this hb9 is a possibility no?

This is actually the problem man and I can tell you cause I found myself in a similar situation in past, the same moment you care too much is the same moment the few changes of having her disappear while the chances you do something stupid that you will regret, dramatically increase.

I strongly believe attraction cannot be created, it either exist or it does not and so respect...after how she treated its obvious that not only she is not attracted from you but she doesnt even grant you a minimal respect.

What I suggest you to do is completely drop her and consider option A to simply go no contact forever while option B although almost impossible is to give her a chance if she first of all apologize, then lets everything go smooth with no exception nor drama or sh1t test or else, at this point any minor problem and she is done forever no matter what.
In case of option B she is the one doing all the work not because of ego or revenge but because its the only way to make sure she is genuine into it and she doesnt step out of limits anymore.

My impression is that you switched those two plans, in fact you wish with all yourself that somehow it will work and you even consider to put some work yourself into it despite what happened.
Anyway I strongly suggest you to cut this toxic item out of your life as soon as possible, its much more probable that it will make further damages rather than fix itself.

 

[lamobatsman]

i agree completely with everyone on this thread. what are you doing man??!!! forget her and find others!! shes a *****