She may be losing interest, I need a plan...

[Jariel]

I'm half tempted to call her bluff and just message her "I don't think whatever this is will work out, let's just be mates". What do you think, bad move?

I've done this crap with several girls before and never heard from them again. I pulled something like this with my girlfriend recently when she asked for a bit of space and now we are not together any more.

This desperate reverse psychology sounds good in theory, but it usually backfires.

A better reaction would be no reaction at all. Indifference is powerful stuff and it shows you have the maturity and security to deal with situations like this, and that can be very reassuring and attractive to a girl.

 

[DonGorgon]

I've done this crap with several girls before and never heard from them again. I pulled something like this with my girlfriend recently when she asked for a bit of space and now we are not together any more.

This desperate reverse psychology sounds good in theory, but it usually backfires.

A better reaction would be no reaction at all. Indifference is powerful stuff and it shows you have the maturity and security to deal with situations like this, and that can be very reassuring and attractive to a girl.

yup cause females have 50 options for every one option you have..lol so when you dump them they dont care

 

[user name]

well, consider yourself lucky you slept with her. i had a girl 15 years younger than me interested but i totally killed it with over-communication. she was like putty in my hands in the beginning but by the end i was a pathetic, clingy, needy 'why are you doing this to me afc'. managed to get some minor interest with the old no contact etc but the damage was too much.

how old is this girl out of interest?