"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She likes me but I need advice!

saber

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I have hung out with this girl 3 times and we have a lot in common blah blah blah. She barely let me round second base the 3rd time we hung out!! She says she "want's to get to know each other"?!? She claimed she is a virgin but I have my douubts...since we are both in college. Any thoughts on whats going on in her head?
I have never had a LTR and don't wanna start with this uphill bull**** struggle.
She accused me of trying to get her horny so I could get in her pants??? DUH!! This sucks..any thoughts?

Oh btw I never ask her for it I just let things progress physically till she gets "resistant"...sigh.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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saber said:
...Any thoughts on whats going on in her head? ....
Didn't she say that she wanted to get to know you better and that she feels that you just want to get her horny? What else do you need to know?
 

saber

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Thx for replying cause no one else did but this is the exact reason this board sucks.
That is the exact advise my mom might give me!!

I think the biggest problems I am encountering is pre-meditated LMR cause she suspects I am a player(I have had no ltr but am sorta smooth)

I was only dropping literally a few bucks on her but gonna stop and control and also make her chase me a bit more using freeze outs/frame control.

Gonna do an all day hangout to get comfort through the roof and cook a dinner with her after.

Plus she is gonna buy a tennis skirt at my request,she always wears pants (how does she not see whats coming???)

Introduce her to a friend so she feels she is a little bit more a part of my life.

Oh, and get her drunk off her ass haha j/k or am I?
 
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