"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She likes kiny stuff and taking control

Jetleg

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So i've met this veterinary nurse lately.

She is quite crazy sexually, to say the least. she bought some new lingerie for the third time we met and asked me specifically what she should buy. Sex was nice.

Now she is more open with me and told me she wants to take control over me (tie me up to the bed, handcuffs or whatever) and do some kinky stuff. I can't say im really into it, but don't mind to try. the thing that bothers me is that she told me that she would like to see me getting hurt a little bit.

This chick is normal, but when she in bed she acts totally different, this what makes it weird.

Should i try or pass? one the one side it could be really fun, but on the other side not sure about this chick.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dustmuffin

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I would pass. You should be cuffing and tieing her up. Spanking her a ss. Pinching her nipples slapping her t itts. Make her feel a little pain. I would never let a woman assume the dominant role during sex.
 

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You may have a sadist or nutter on your hands. Or maybe she's just extremely kinky and wants to live out some fantasy of hers. Proceed as you want, but keep a close eye on her future behavior, especially if the control factor starts slowly slipping into your other interactions with her.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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All women are freaks, just takes the right moves to bring it out of them. I would say give it a shot, but try to reverse the roles.
 

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I'm in the try anything once camp. May I suggest a safe word in case you need it.
Please post details after the encounter :)
 

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So i've met this veterinary nurse lately.

She is quite crazy sexually, to say the least. she bought some new lingerie for the third time we met and asked me specifically what she should buy. Sex was nice.

Now she is more open with me and told me she wants to take control over me (tie me up to the bed, handcuffs or whatever) and do some kinky stuff. I can't say im really into it, but don't mind to try. the thing that bothers me is that she told me that she would like to see me getting hurt a little bit.

This chick is normal, but when she in bed she acts totally different, this what makes it weird.

Should i try or pass? one the one side it could be really fun, but on the other side not sure about this chick.
sounds like a future dominatrix

hope that it won't turn out like the seinfeld episode where george gets left tied to a bed in a hotel while the girl runs off with his wallet, I think there was a two and a half men episode where that happened to alan too.
 

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sounds like a future dominatrix

hope that it won't turn out like the seinfeld episode where george gets left tied to a bed in a hotel while the girl runs off with his wallet, I think there was a two and a half men episode where that happened to alan too.
Phuck that chit
 

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When she has you blindfolded and handcuffed to the bed you won't even see
that hard cold strap-on as it suddenly and brutally penetrates you....

PROCEED WITH CAUTION!!

Some things should not even by tried once. I could make a list....

Anyway, here's an idea.....tell her you'll go along with the plan. Let her believe that your she's going to dominate you
and you're going to be submissive (a silly idea). Then at the last minute as she's about to turn the key in that handcuff....
jump the fvck up and reverse the roles again to how they should be......hand cuff her face down and give her the anal that
she's craving...

This is a test. She's looking for you to not give in and dominate her.

https://www.xvideos.com/video642363/anal_with_butter_scene_in_last_tango_in_paris
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CMNILS87

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Anytime a girl has a fantasy like this, it screams daddy issues. I'd say try it once, but you barely know this chick. Most girls don't tell you deep dark fantasys till they trust you. Who knows how many ****s she's had.

1. You dominate her and take it to town. How is she gonna complain when you bang her into a coma.
2. Get some penicillin in case and wrap it up
3. Vet nurse? You mean vet tech?
 

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I'm in the try anything once camp. If you find it's not really your thing, you can always stop so it doesn't hurt to give it a try.
 

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Yeah man she is a vet tech sorry got confused.

Well it went well but i didn't let her control me that much. I went from being submissive to being the dominant pretty quickly.

I got a text today saying "thank you for raping me last night" lol.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yeah man she is a vet tech sorry got confused.

Well it went well but i didn't let her control me that much. I went from being submissive to being the dominant pretty quickly.

I got a text today saying "thank you for raping me last night" lol.
Haha I knew that's what she was looking for.....for you to turn it around...

Bet she loves to be spanked, slapped and/or choked......

This scene turns her on and she's probably masturbated to it (or not even needed to...simply came from viewing):
 
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