"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Epic. It CAN be maintained, but you cannot lay up under them all the time. When they are complaining about you going hunting and fishing all the time and your always gone, she will long for you. That can be maintained for a very long time.
There is more of a chance in your scenario. There’s also the traveling man who comes home and catches her smoking a new pole.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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There is more of a chance in your scenario. There’s also the traveling man who comes home and catches her smoking a new pole.
Your right. Behind the scenes is feminism and her friends working on her to get her to disrespect you and the relationship.
 

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Your right. Behind the scenes is feminism and her friends working on her to get her to disrespect you and the relationship.
She will only ever respect a man who doesn’t need her and keeps her dancing the rest of her life.
I’ve seen it both ways with my own eyes.

if the only validation she gets from you is sex, even very good sex, she becomes susceptible to Mr. Cuckasaurous who validates her in other ways.

If you validate her outside of sex, Mr. Dik Head gets his go with her.

So basically you get to name your poison. She will always want both. Duplicity is her biological urge. Believe me when I tell you that I have looked at it inside out and have seen the couples trap.

Like @SeekerOfTheWay clearly pointed out...99.9%
Will cheat at least once. Friend? If it’s an emotional “friend” she said 100% of the time a woman will cheat.

I’ve asked women the question. I think one said that 85% of her friends had cheated on their boyfriend or husband and she was probably in her mid 50’s. That was the lowest percentage I have ever gotten.

we are living in a dream world. Everything we believe is a lie. I’ve embraced it and have been happier ever since.
 

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She will only ever respect a man who doesn’t need her and keeps her dancing the rest of her life.
I’ve seen it both ways with my own eyes.

if the only validation she gets from you is sex, even very good sex, she becomes susceptible to Mr. Cuckasaurous who validates her in other ways.

If you validate her outside of sex, Mr. Dik Head gets his go with her.

So basically you get to name your poison. She will always want both. Duplicity is her biological urge. Believe me when I tell you that I have looked at it inside out and have seen the couples trap.

Like @SeekerOfTheWay clearly pointed out...99.9%
Will cheat at least once. Friend? If it’s an emotional “friend” she said 100% of the time a woman will cheat.

I’ve asked women the question. I think one said that 85% of her friends had cheated on their boyfriend or husband and she was probably in her mid 50’s. That was the lowest percentage I have ever gotten.

we are living in a dream world. Everything we believe is a lie. I’ve embraced it and have been happier ever since.
Is it that they might occasionally dip off, but you will be banging at will? Or is it these 85% are cheating on their man, and then denying him of sex going forward?
 
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