TheDoctor
Don Juan
NEW UPDATE
Need some help on this.
So my ex and I have a mutual friend who is dear to us both. The past few weeks the friend has been a little partial to me because my ex has been mooding and a little mean to her for no apparent reason. Anyway, the friend and I have spoken periodically and I try to not talk about the ex but it's hard because I know they still speak to each other daily.
Today I spoke to the friend and she told me some interesting things.
As I said before, it's been one week of NC. I sent her a text Monday telling her that her things were boxed up and ready to be picked up and for her to leave my house key in the mailbox. She said she couldn't make it but would come when she could. Wednesday, on the way to the office, I dropped her things off on her front step and left.
Mutual friend told me today that when she got them she cried. She is sad about the breakup and losing me. She is questioning herself even now, after only a week. She has entertained the idea of getting back together with me but is afaid nothing will change and it would be the same old same old.
My problem, and the reason I joined this community is because I need to change my behavior, with or without my ex. No woman wants an AFC boyfriend who is jealous and insecure and whiny when **** doesn't go his way. I need to change for me and for noone else. I WILL CHANGE! I just want her to see the change and fall back in love with me.
Knowing that she is second guessing herself at this time, knowing that she is upset about this breakup, does this change things any? Does anyone agree that I should seize this opportunity to contact her in the next few days to try to reconcile?
Need some help on this.
So my ex and I have a mutual friend who is dear to us both. The past few weeks the friend has been a little partial to me because my ex has been mooding and a little mean to her for no apparent reason. Anyway, the friend and I have spoken periodically and I try to not talk about the ex but it's hard because I know they still speak to each other daily.
Today I spoke to the friend and she told me some interesting things.
As I said before, it's been one week of NC. I sent her a text Monday telling her that her things were boxed up and ready to be picked up and for her to leave my house key in the mailbox. She said she couldn't make it but would come when she could. Wednesday, on the way to the office, I dropped her things off on her front step and left.
Mutual friend told me today that when she got them she cried. She is sad about the breakup and losing me. She is questioning herself even now, after only a week. She has entertained the idea of getting back together with me but is afaid nothing will change and it would be the same old same old.
My problem, and the reason I joined this community is because I need to change my behavior, with or without my ex. No woman wants an AFC boyfriend who is jealous and insecure and whiny when **** doesn't go his way. I need to change for me and for noone else. I WILL CHANGE! I just want her to see the change and fall back in love with me.
Knowing that she is second guessing herself at this time, knowing that she is upset about this breakup, does this change things any? Does anyone agree that I should seize this opportunity to contact her in the next few days to try to reconcile?