"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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PeterCrouch

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Just text a gal, want and need her to play footy tomorrow, shes working so isnt keen!

I sent a text saying "right so as ur being bored tonight and so am i, im coming over and were gonna have some fun, ill bring a footy"

she replied "very funny i like the humour"

i need quick and good replys, next is not an option, getting with her is also not an option (She has a bf) i just want and need her to play tomorrow (its in the rules we need a gal, nobody else available"

ta for help!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wtf is a footy
 

PeterCrouch

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footy = football = soccer ball!

shes just text me (before i even replied to her other message) saying "so how you getting here then?"
 

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Did somebody order some Fo'ties, homies!?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by PeterCrouch
footy = football = soccer ball!

shes just text me (before i even replied to her other message) saying "so how you getting here then?"
Dude, she got a bf, but wants you to bite her anyways;)
 

PeterCrouch

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You americans really are losers arnt ya!

Anyway i didnt go round, altho she said that i text her saying "where do ya live again?"

she just replied "lol what ya up2?"

so i said "eating tea having a shower before meeting you"

she said "lol ur not coming to meet me, it would take ya an hour and half to get here anyway"

shes right i have no idea where she lives all i know is that its ages away!

so i didnt bother going round, we continued to text trying to make her play tomorrow but she didnt agree to it!

maybe some other time
 

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man for a minute i thought you were organising to go to her house to play footsies with her. haha.
 
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