S. Pryor said:
Man you can't be misleading these females because it's going to end up biting you in the ass in some way or another. I don't give a damn how fine this girl is: there's someone finer than her. I shall refer you a line from The Notorious B.I.G. in which he says "plus your sister look better than you, give head better than you, ***** get wetter than you..." Just be upfront with her and tell her that all you want to do is have sex with her. If she's not with it find another girl that will. Since you said you liked her, you're kind of in a relationship now and that's only going to lead to you getting sick of her once she gets too affectionate.
Misleading to females? Oh and females NEVER mislead men.
Females are the MASTERS of manipulation. They learn it early on in grade school when we men still think girls have cooties.
Your morals are YOUR morals, but to live in the world we live in with these morals is unrealistic.
There is a reason that many women go for players and there is a reason that 10% of the men have sex with 90% of the women (don't quote me on that.. however it is something like that).
Telling ANY woman that you want her just for sex is a lose-lose. When women just want us for sex do they tell us that? No. They call us whenever they are lonely and in need of sex.
As far as this girl goes, it sounds like you actually do like her. And I've been in the same position as you. Some woman thinks I'm a player. Of course I tell her I'm not and that I just love women. Sex ensues.
The one mistake that a lot of DJs make is becoming 'soft' with this woman and putting her ontop of a pedstal, because after all, she's the one who told you that you are a slut and she is not. So naturally even DJs will start painting this woman as the perfect woman.
Don't do it. Most women play this card just to manipulate you. They WANT you to think that they are god's gift to this earth.
And even if she is truthful about not being a slut, it doesn't mean that if you get on bended knee and feed her needs she will fall head over heels for you. On the contrary, she will probably loose feelings for you.
The whole reason she was attracted to you in the first place was because you had other women, and you were a CHALLENGE. The second you stop making her work for you, the second she starts looking for another man to work for.
No this doesn't mean treat her like sh!t. It means make her work for you, just like any other woman. If you have other options open with other women, TAKE them. Don't wait on her. You will know when she is ready to make the leap to become serious with you. If you make that leap first, she will run away.. unless you've built up some MASSIVE attraction. I'm talking like she's cried to you because you won't be exclusive with her; that sort of thing.
Even the best DJs who have been around the block will make this mistake when they think they've met 'the one'. Remember, there is a HUGE sea on women out there. You're the big fish. Once you shrink yourself and become the smaller fish, you don't look quite as good.
