"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She keeps saying "just as friends"

zekko

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LoneWolf said:
My question is, should I care that she mentioned twice to me "Just as friends?" Or just ignore it and be like "yeah sure" cause I know that in the past girls have said that same thing to me. Like one time, this girl said she just wanted to be friends before we met. I ended up fuking her a couple weeks later for a while.
I think that is exactly the way you should play it. I completely disagree with those who said this is a hopeless case. As you showed with your example. I've been in the same position. Your idea is perfect: Be nonchalant and agree "yeah sure" and proceed as if it were never said.

The problem is most likely that she hasn't seen the sexual side of you yet, so she doesn't think of you in that way. All you have to do is show it to her. Escalate. I bet you can bang this girl, assuming that is your intent. The fact that she is a head case is probably in your favor.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She seems to be displaying all the characteristics of an internet scam artist. Be careful with this one.
 
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