Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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She keeps saying "just as friends"

zekko

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LoneWolf said:
My question is, should I care that she mentioned twice to me "Just as friends?" Or just ignore it and be like "yeah sure" cause I know that in the past girls have said that same thing to me. Like one time, this girl said she just wanted to be friends before we met. I ended up fuking her a couple weeks later for a while.
I think that is exactly the way you should play it. I completely disagree with those who said this is a hopeless case. As you showed with your example. I've been in the same position. Your idea is perfect: Be nonchalant and agree "yeah sure" and proceed as if it were never said.

The problem is most likely that she hasn't seen the sexual side of you yet, so she doesn't think of you in that way. All you have to do is show it to her. Escalate. I bet you can bang this girl, assuming that is your intent. The fact that she is a head case is probably in your favor.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She seems to be displaying all the characteristics of an internet scam artist. Be careful with this one.
 
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