"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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she keeps introducing me to ppl she knows as 'this is my friend..' i told her not to

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this girl im seeing keeps introducing me as 'this is my friend..' everytime we bump into someone she knows.. i told her before on our 2nd date that i'm not her friend.. i'm her date. i told her that i understood that saying 'this is my date..' is awkward and that if she just introduced me by name only would be sufficient.. then she goes on to say 'oh well we weren't on a date that time..'

even though i told her again, it's disrespectful to me and what i do.. should i be getting so worked up about it with her?

yesterday she did the same thing again introducing me to her roommate (who incidently was the same person who i was introduced as a friend 2 months ago)

whenever she mentions me in conversation about 'oh i was telling my friend that i want to invite my friend pete..' then she said to me 'oh u dont like it when i refer to u as a friend.'

do i need to lay down the line here? i know im not friend zoned cos she practically licks my face/lips but she could just be winding me up. im contemplating next time she does it to say 'no we're not friends she just likes to introduce me that way even though we're not..'
 

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oh wow. i dont know what 2 say with this one. it definitely seems like shes a female player and shes drawing the line wit u. now since you told her to stop doin it and she keeps on id probably tell her "well since im just your friend i dont take friends out on dates" and id probably stop but im at a point right now where it wouldnt even bother me. if your not lookin for a relationship then you shouldnt even care. if you gettin the pvssy then why would it matter if you only her friend.
 
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im sick of your threads pete

are you sure your not a troll?
 
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Maybe, she has a boyfriend you dont know about? Or she just likes to call the different guys she is fvcking her friend to make herself not look like a wh0re.
 
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Are you, or are you not fvcking this chick???? If not, then you are NOT 'seeing' her, and you are her GIRLFREIND. Lose the oneitis. This is like the sixth or seventh thread you've made about this bytch. Get it together, man. If she's this much drama, before you're even dating, then why are you pursuing it? Actually, I think YOU are the drama queen in this scenario, so unless she's attracted to that (and some are, believe it or not) you dont have a chance. You might as well tattoo "NEEDY" on your forehead.

My Ex who I still fvck, always calls me her 'friend' too. I dont like it, but we arent in a relationship, so I cant say shyt. It does make me wonder about other guys she calls "friend" too, though!
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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IF it was her kids, I can see it. She doesn't want them to know all the guys she's sleeping with. BUT if you aren't sleeping with her-you are just a friend.
 
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