"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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is this a bad thing. I know AIM is only gonna lead you to LJBF land but she doesnt call me, she only IMs me, I dunno why, but I want to be with her, and I've gone out with her twice, but nothing but kino has happened.
 

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Stop over-thinking; because she talks to you on AIM doesn't mean she doesn't like you, dude.

Like, maybe she's scared to talk over the phone. It's easy to carry a convo on AIM; both people are less reluctant to tell what they really feel.

You have complete control over the direction of your relationship with this girl - AIM...MSN....etc. cannot possible change that; only you can.

I use AIM to keep in touch with people. I don't use AIM to "hang out" or to carry out long convos... only in limited circumstances, but when I talk for a long time on AIM; I build interest. You should work on that.

However, arguably, the best thing for me, and for anyone else (like you) is to arrange a meeting - hang out with her.

IM her, Call her, and ask if she wants to chill. If yes, then good; if no, then go do something else.

She'll come to you once you establish that if she wants you. We don't live in an old fashioned world; girls know how to get guys, just as well as guys know how to get girls.

good luck to you
 
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