"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she keeps calling me nice and awwwwww but shes "falling" for me

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as above really she keeps saying im a nice bloke and "Awwwwww" in texts its off putting!!!!!!!!

ive done nothing of the sort apart from be respectful and **** her brains out

she also cant keep her hands off me and cant wait to see me again blows my phone up

I know you lot will tell me her actions should tell me everything (which are great)

but like the other day i texted bk "you just keep doing what your doing(attractive ladylike behaviour) and ill make sure when we get together we have a damn good time"


and she text back "oh god your so cute"

whyyyy??????? im not showing it bothers me btw its just more creepy to me
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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so i must have the same issue you had? to me i associate it with emasculating
 

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When a woman is in lust or loves you. She will start calling your cute , teddy bear and pet names versus when she is pissed.(Lol)
Keep doing what you are doing to make her happy
 

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ok ill look at it that way although.......i did reply fairly to her the once and said "im just considerate and respectful to what i believe is a good woman and will reciprocate naturally,
 

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What is the problem? I really don't see one. It sounds like she is being sincere. Sounds like everything else is good too.

When she says stuff like this, you...
a) smile
b) give some dirty response regarding sex
c) Give no response at all

She is expressing her passion and care for you, and your upset about it? And by the way, that text you sent was lame. Time to start practicing at better texting. Her interest is sky high, you can afford to try different things. Maybe like "Awwww? are you coming without me? What are you wearing?"

Or just simply ignore it!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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