"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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she keeps calling me nice and awwwwww but shes "falling" for me

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as above really she keeps saying im a nice bloke and "Awwwwww" in texts its off putting!!!!!!!!

ive done nothing of the sort apart from be respectful and **** her brains out

she also cant keep her hands off me and cant wait to see me again blows my phone up

I know you lot will tell me her actions should tell me everything (which are great)

but like the other day i texted bk "you just keep doing what your doing(attractive ladylike behaviour) and ill make sure when we get together we have a damn good time"


and she text back "oh god your so cute"

whyyyy??????? im not showing it bothers me btw its just more creepy to me
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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so i must have the same issue you had? to me i associate it with emasculating
 

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When a woman is in lust or loves you. She will start calling your cute , teddy bear and pet names versus when she is pissed.(Lol)
Keep doing what you are doing to make her happy
 

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ok ill look at it that way although.......i did reply fairly to her the once and said "im just considerate and respectful to what i believe is a good woman and will reciprocate naturally,
 

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What is the problem? I really don't see one. It sounds like she is being sincere. Sounds like everything else is good too.

When she says stuff like this, you...
a) smile
b) give some dirty response regarding sex
c) Give no response at all

She is expressing her passion and care for you, and your upset about it? And by the way, that text you sent was lame. Time to start practicing at better texting. Her interest is sky high, you can afford to try different things. Maybe like "Awwww? are you coming without me? What are you wearing?"

Or just simply ignore it!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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