"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She just got out of a relationship.

PocketGnome

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It's wasn't a very long one, and I've been talking to her for a few weeks now. Nothing too much yet because she was in a relationship, but I wouldn't say we are friends at the moment.

Anyway, how soon should I wait until I take my chances? Homecoming is in a week an a half, maybe sometime this week?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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itishe

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Well, what do you have to lose? Maybe a little dignity if you get shot down, but you most likely will seeing you waited this long to ask her to homecoming. If she goes, then look at it as a confidence booster and pat yourself on the back. If she doesn't, find another girl and pat yourself on the back.
 

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how long was the relationship?

how did it end. why did it end chances are you'll become the rebound..

depends on the information u give us
 

PocketGnome

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It wasn't that long... Like a month at the most. I don't know how it ended. They used to hold hands and stuff in the hall, and now they don't. They apparently don't talk.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just move in for the kill. Don't talk about her relationship. She's vulnerable right now and will be less critical of you. As each second passes, this will change tough. I'd suggest you ask her to hang with you immediately. And I mean, like, in the next 5 minutes.
 

PocketGnome

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I wish I could in the next five minutes. I'm not gonna see her tomorrow at all because I won't be in school, so maybe friday? Unless she gets on the internet, and I would prefer to talk to her in person.
 
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