"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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She just broke up

foamy

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Ok, so I just shot her a msg, I noticed that she broke up with her BF over spring break, so I shot her an email. I didn't say anything about it, just talked about getting my final score in the class that we were in together.

After that, I said something like "I hope your break is going better then mine, I'm just working my ass off, 80 hours is how many by the end of this week"

So if she says something about breaking up with her bf, what should I respond with? And she could be all hung up on him too i guess

By the way, she's like an HB9.4

I wanted to say something like "Well, if you're looking for a MAN, go to the beach with me a weekend from next."
But I dont want it to sound that cheezy. Or some other date.

Just wondering if anyone has done well in a situation similar that I could learn from.


Thanks,

Foamy
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TruthHurts

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she broke up with her bf over spring break hahahha
basically she wants to go have a lot of dck... :) fcking ho :)

listen... she just got out of a relatioship and having fun.. either she will love it, or she will miss being in relatioship.. all based on wether she meet someone that will rock her world over spring break... try to f.ck her. not be her man...
i.e. ask her for drinks... keep conversations short... try loosen up with alcohol when meet.. get in pants quick.. before she misses her x or finds someone else who will get in there..
 

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If you (I'm assuming here) didn't create attraction when she did have a boyfriend (one chick thinks I'm totally kissable, and she's taken, *HMMM*), you are in a harder position to win.

How to win? Create attraction. How do you create Attraction? That's for you to find out. The best attraction is when she can't tell if you like her that much, yet she starts dumping signs all over the damn place (also known as Flying under the Radar)
 

foamy

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damn, women ALWAY seem to go back to their BF....
Guess what she did. Damn
 
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