"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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she isn't my type/ how many dates before you can tell -what does taht term mean

joe45

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ok a couple goes out on a date-first date and then after the first or second date they find out that she isn't my type.

what does the term "she or he isn't my type" what exactly is that . any examples. i'm sure this has happen with some of u guys and said yea the girl or guy is great- but "he or she isn't my type" what are they meaning when they say that.


u go out with a girl -on how many dates can u find out if this girl and u have chemistry, she is into u, u are into her-on how many dates can u find oout. what are some clues u use.

in what ways can u find out shes not using u for a free coffee, free dinner,

give me examples if u can
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Blackmm

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Multiple dates for a dude to find out if a chick is compatible, equal karma, yada yada is bull****. Ultimately its going to come down to if you ever want to **** her or not. If the chick is 5'2, 220 lbs, then i know instantly that we will NEVER be compatible, no matter how many dates we go on.
 

Alkali

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"Didn't click" is what I say.

-Not funny enough
-Not experimental enough
-Not cute enough
-She did something that annoyed me
-Too needy
-Not needy enough
-Too flirty (with others)

Pretty much anything that's a turn off. You can run in to some and counterbalance them with the good but once it flips you just say they're not your type even if they did nothing wrong (sort of)
 
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