"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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she isn't my type/ how many dates before you can tell -what does taht term mean

joe45

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ok a couple goes out on a date-first date and then after the first or second date they find out that she isn't my type.

what does the term "she or he isn't my type" what exactly is that . any examples. i'm sure this has happen with some of u guys and said yea the girl or guy is great- but "he or she isn't my type" what are they meaning when they say that.


u go out with a girl -on how many dates can u find out if this girl and u have chemistry, she is into u, u are into her-on how many dates can u find oout. what are some clues u use.

in what ways can u find out shes not using u for a free coffee, free dinner,

give me examples if u can
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Blackmm

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Multiple dates for a dude to find out if a chick is compatible, equal karma, yada yada is bull****. Ultimately its going to come down to if you ever want to **** her or not. If the chick is 5'2, 220 lbs, then i know instantly that we will NEVER be compatible, no matter how many dates we go on.
 

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"Didn't click" is what I say.

-Not funny enough
-Not experimental enough
-Not cute enough
-She did something that annoyed me
-Too needy
-Not needy enough
-Too flirty (with others)

Pretty much anything that's a turn off. You can run in to some and counterbalance them with the good but once it flips you just say they're not your type even if they did nothing wrong (sort of)
 
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