"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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she isn't my type/ how many dates before you can tell -what does taht term mean

joe45

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ok a couple goes out on a date-first date and then after the first or second date they find out that she isn't my type.

what does the term "she or he isn't my type" what exactly is that . any examples. i'm sure this has happen with some of u guys and said yea the girl or guy is great- but "he or she isn't my type" what are they meaning when they say that.


u go out with a girl -on how many dates can u find out if this girl and u have chemistry, she is into u, u are into her-on how many dates can u find oout. what are some clues u use.

in what ways can u find out shes not using u for a free coffee, free dinner,

give me examples if u can
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Blackmm

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Multiple dates for a dude to find out if a chick is compatible, equal karma, yada yada is bull****. Ultimately its going to come down to if you ever want to **** her or not. If the chick is 5'2, 220 lbs, then i know instantly that we will NEVER be compatible, no matter how many dates we go on.
 

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"Didn't click" is what I say.

-Not funny enough
-Not experimental enough
-Not cute enough
-She did something that annoyed me
-Too needy
-Not needy enough
-Too flirty (with others)

Pretty much anything that's a turn off. You can run in to some and counterbalance them with the good but once it flips you just say they're not your type even if they did nothing wrong (sort of)
 
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