She is the Mirror that Reflects Your Deepest Fear Back To YOU

[Roober]

You are either dating a high quality of woman or grossly mischaricterizing their or your behavior IMO. The former being more likely, of course, but I have to agree that I've seen more of an inversion (push/pull) dynamic with women than the harmony you've described.

Well, there is a balance to all behaviors and too much grey area to truly define anything. Typically though, I have found women will mirror my attitude. It starts from when they are kids, it is just part of their biology.

What race are these women? They can't be black lol.

One was. She was from South Africa, and a RN working on her master's. I am not much for black women, no offense, jsut not my cup of tea.

If you know what the problem is (black women), then why do you keep dating them? The is the definition of insanity... doing the same thing and expecting a different result!

If you lose money on an investment, do you keep investing?
If a woman doesn't seem interested, does you keep chasing?
If you hate your job, do you stay?

You know the problem, you just need to find a way to fix it. I am not a spiritual guy at all, but this may do you some good....

grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference.



You don't seem to know the difference... You can change your mindset, and where you place your target. You cannot change the target.