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She is obcessed w/guys being circumcised & I'm not

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Short story is I met this one girl, we hit it off, she is fun to talk to blah blah. Anyhow we haven't had sex yet, it's only been 2 dates so far. She's been open about talking on some subjects that a lot of other chicks blush. This week I get an email from her asking me if I circumcised or not since I'm originally from Europe and she's heard that a lot of guys there are not. I just told her "to wait and find out first hand". Well tonight while talking to her she mentioned that it again and said it's important to her and she'd hate to find out and have to "run out of bed". Well I am not circumcised and I assume that's what she was talking about.
So my question is do I break things off with her assuming that it's pointless to pursue sex with her if she is very likely to bail once she finds out that I'm not cut? Her mentioning "having to run out of bed" sounded like it was a deal breaker type of issue for her. So why bother spending time wining & dinning her? Yes I like her, but I haven't known her for too long so I'm sure I can get over her.
Or on the flip side do I continue to spend time with her, get to sex part and see where it goes from there. Worst case I end up blue balled and she bails, right? Might end up uncomfortable for both of us but then I can say I at least tried?

I'm going out of the country for a week for work, so I need to help deciding on what to do before I come back. Either setup another date for next weekend or not bother.
 

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Break it off with her. Even if you were circumcised, you wouldn't want to be with a girl who's that shallow anyway.
 

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Haha.. Tell her you are, she probably won't even know the difference as long as you're hard by the time she sees you.

Honestly, most women don't know what they're talking about, just spitting back talking points they've heard from their girlfriends.
 

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Once you've got her hot & wanting it badly enough, it wouldn't matter one bit to her.

I agree with SmoothTalker, it's likely that she just heard some BS from her GFs and imagined it to be a deal-breaker in her head.
 

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Why are guys afraid to confront women over **** like this? We really are losing the power in the game. Imagine if a guy was talking about things like that seriously to a chick before they ever got involved. He would get nexted so fast.
 

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Is she Jewish or Muslim or something? If she's going to be that shallow....dump her.

And since she is so insistent that you be circumcised, then perhaps you should tell her, "ladies first."
 

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Well I kinda know where she is coming from, it's a bit of a religious thing for her as she is Jewish and it's req for all guys. But then that's what get's me about all the "religious" people is that no where does it say that fornication before marriage is OK. Yet she is willing to fawk around and sleep with me and it's OK yet me not being cut is religious no-no? LOL
 

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i think your title was enough

she sounds like a wierdo nuff said tell her to gt over it or peace out
 

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Prod said:
Why are guys afraid to confront women over **** like this? We really are losing the power in the game. Imagine if a guy was talking about things like that seriously to a chick before they ever got involved. He would get nexted so fast.
Amen, Brother!
 

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Ah, she's Jewish.. Well true enough about the religious girls, they'll break whatever rules they want but make a big deal of other ones. Chick logic is great...

You can suggest she get her **** hood chopped off, as it's anatomically equivilant and you can make all the same arguements, it would make her cleaner, you 'prefer the look', whatever. Bet she won't go for it.

Anyway man, if you feel bad doing what I said because of her beliefs, then either tell her straight up that you aren't (after getting her really horny) or just next her.
 

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You should tell her you are circumsized, **** her, then tell her to get the **** out and never talk to you again for being such a shallow *****. Then say, P.S. I'm uncircumsized, *****
 

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I wouldn't tell her to get the **** out immediately because it isnt certain that its a deal breaker eyet. You just assume it is. Tell her you are not circumsized, see how she reacts. Based on that **** her or tell her to get the **** out.

Btw dont pay for anything when you are telling her this. Dont take her out on a date. Explain yourself over the phone or in person and see if she is still game. If she isnt then you saved yourself a lot of hassle and dissapointment. go game someone else
 

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i'm not circumcized and most girls can't tell the difference when you are hard anyway.. just make sure u dont let her see it before its hard.. hit the pssy once and then ask her how she likes uncircumcized d1cks and see her expression lol
 

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Sveen said:
Well I kinda know where she is coming from, it's a bit of a religious thing for her as she is Jewish and it's req for all guys. But then that's what get's me about all the "religious" people is that no where does it say that fornication before marriage is OK. Yet she is willing to fawk around and sleep with me and it's OK yet me not being cut is religious no-no? LOL
Yeah there are lots of these types around. They get all high and mighty when it comes to certain issues but flagrantly violate many of the teachings of their religions. If you're going to be religious, you can't pick and choose what parts you like and don't like.

Does she expect you to stop eating pork and stick only to Kosher food?

Fake religious chicks are just that....fake. As for the real religious chicks, most of them are super prude and very self-righteous.

If you can get a **** out of it, go for it. If not, NEXT her.
 

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