“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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P.S - My english is not perfect, please understand me.

I've meet a beautiful girl, she can have any man that she wants, and she know that.I've meet her, and with my knowledage I've seduced her.I played hard to get at first, and that thing worked for me, untill one moment.We were at a party, and I don't wanted to stay all night near her, because I've considered if I do that I'll be considered needy, so I started to talk with my frineds, and I saw some girls, and ofcourse talked with them.She saw me and replyed ...she was talking with some boys, the were attracted by her from the first second, and she began to dance with them, to make me gelos, and show me that she has more power than me.

What should I do in this case ? I can't make her gelous, because she can make me imediatly and more easely, because every man wants her.So I can't do nothing to improve the attraction.

As I've said at first I played hard to get, beeing confident, dominant, funny, playfull, and after some time I've kissed her, but before I teased her.Ok .. I love the way she kiss, and she have an earring in her tongue, more pleasure.Untill that I don't wanted to kiss her, or I said to her .. to wait untill later.But after I've kissed her I wanted more ... and now the surprise .. when I want more she don't want.I think this is a game of her ... what I can do ?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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it's a test, nothing more, nothing less

pass it by ignoring her and play with another girl nearly as hot as her
 
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Mitza said:
I can't make her gelous, because she can make me imediatly and more easely, because every man wants her.So I can't do nothing to improve the attraction.
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Why not? Couldn't you do the same thing she did and dance with other girls to make her jealous?

Thing is, I can tell just by reading this that you were mesmerized by her looks and she is the Prize to you...and I'm sure she could too. Maybe 0utwardly you tried faking some PUA tactics, but inwardly it's very clear you were supplicating to her and getting sucked into her more dominant frame. You were not in control of the interaction, she was. It was HER WORLD, and you were just visiting it and reacting to all her moves.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Well, you've played some games and chicks love to play games - they are experts at it.

At some point you have to cut to the chase and just make a definitive move. You've kissed her, so there's interest on both sides. After that, you have to escalate (get a one on one date, escalate physically). Playing lots more games after kissing her will spiral out of control and go nowhere.

If the situation IS just going to be when you show interest she backs off, and when you back off she shows interest - that is a game you don't want to waste your time with. For chicks, it's fun (they get male attention and experience control) - for guys, it's just frustrating.

Guys need to understand the difference between being a challenge (builds attraction) and acting not interested (generally self defeating). A lot go overboard and pretend they are not interested - there's a big difference between that and showing interest but NOT SUPPLICATING.

She knows you like her, so pretending not to be interested isn't going to work.
 
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I've meet a beautiful girl, she can have any man that she wants, and she know that

So what, any good looking girl can have just about any man she wants, this girl is nothing special. Right?


She saw me and replyed ...she was talking with some boys, the were attracted by her from the first second, and she began to dance with them, to make me gelos, and show me that she has more power than me.


Instead of taking this personally, or being bothered by it, you should have chuckled and taken it as a compliment. If a girl behaves this way, it's because she is trying to get 'your' attention, she could care less about the guys she danced with. Think about it.


What should I do in this case ? I can't make her gelous, because she can make me imediatly and more easely, because every man wants her.So I can't do nothing to improve the attraction.


I wouldn’t have even looked at her direction. I would of known that the show was all for me. Get it?

As I've said at first I played hard to get, beeing confident, dominant, funny, playfull, and after some time I've kissed her, but before I teased her

Perfect, keep this up. It worked because if it didn't, she wouldn't have tried to make you jealous.

But after I've kissed her I wanted more ... and now the surprise .. when I want more she don't want.I think this is a game of her ... what I can do ?

If you know that wanting her more will push her away (or ACTING like you do), then you need to do the opposite. Go back to being confident, dominant, funny, etc.
 
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