I'm 19 shes 18, she's going to my college tnext year, we bioth went to the same Highschool. We have been dating for a couple weeks and tonight she mentioned something about painkillers over text. I knew shes has back problems from cheer so I asked her if it was from her back and she replied "naw, hahah I can't tell you." I replied jokingly "well now you have to!" she replied "no that'd make both of us feel awkward" I promptly freaked the **** out, I mean shes probabkly a virgin, maybe not, Idk about that girl stuff but could she take painkillers for periods or some crap? or is it an STD? I kepy it cool and asked "oh, are they some kind of antidepressants" as kindof a neg hit because I knew they weren't, shes not a crazy bish or anything, to see if it would make her spill the beans. she replied "No. I would tell you if it was that!" I didn't reply, and i have rad reciepts on so she knows it, its been an hour and she still hasnt said ****. I mean what the hell could this be guys? is this a test? Whats going on?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She is keeping a secret about something or maybe its a test
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