she is cold in public!

[rmora82]

What the hell is happening to my girlfriend??.....

we only have 1 month going out.......but she keeps doing the same........

whenever we are in a group of people, she doesnt touch me or start somethin like holding my hand or anything else

I have felt frustrated when some of my friends ask me if she really is my girlfriend........or if we ´ve been fighting

I think she has very low interest in me ..or maybe she doesnt trust me.........right now I think I'll dump her........

3 important things

-she told my best friend that she would like to be more caring with me in public.......(she knows the problem)apparently she doesnt know why she acts that way (obviously I dont believe that

-before we started our relationship she saw me making out w/another girl...........she gave another chance after some time. Maybe she doesnt trust me

-she is more caring when we are alone........although she is always receptive to my kino .......when we are more intimate things get better


Thanx for your posts



RM
Sudamerican DJ


Please forgive my mistakes in this post.....I dont speak English very well ........I'm trying to do my best

 

[Julian]

Dude like ive said before some people just DONT LIKE to be all touchy feely and having public displays of attraction alll over the place.

And then again, she may not like u lol =\

 

[StudMeister]

GF did the same with me. Figured out it was low interest level and she just was not into the touching thing at all, she had been screwed over by guys and so did not have alot of trust in me. I dumped her after 2 months.

 

[DEKKA]

god you shouldnt be the one wondering why you arent getting PDA... she should.

PDA isnt a sign of manhood or control.

I dare say that as a man you should keep the PDA to a minimum as it is.

PDA just too closely resembles clingyness when i see other guys doin it.

sure, i do PDAs quite often.... but really im thinking about cutting back all together.

its just so unmanly for some reason.

 

[comote]

Wow it's been a while since I have been here, I think I can help you to understand this problem. I have also dealt with this problem with a latina.
The problem is the gossip(el chisme). You two have only been going out for a month and chances are that if she saw you making out with some girl, then other's did as well. If she were to be affectionate with you in public especially so soon after you two are together then she may be afraid of developing a reputation.
Or else she may be afraid of making you feel restricted with her. I have also seen this to be the case, she doesn't want you to feel like she is "marking her territory".

 

[CLOONEY]

She doesnt trust you and or is insecure with herself.

 

[StudMeister]

If your alone does she hold hands and kiss you or does it have to be in a secluded area? Has she madeout with you in that one month period?

 

[E-Z Rider]

It's only been a month, man.

Are you talking like when you're with a group of friends, or when it's just the two of you, but you happen to be out in public?

She may be uncomfortable with it. It's not as big of a problem as you might think, as long as she's satisfactory in other areas.

Don't act like you really need the PDA. I say just take it.

Smoothly, confidently, take her hand in public, put your arm around her waist. Girls like that, and it's really not AFC, despite what some might tell you.

Start doing that. Do it spontaneously, and not all that often. If you give her the impression that YOU'RE entirely comfortable with it, she will eventually to. It's just like progressing sexually with an inexperienced girl. You have to show her first that YOU are confident and comfortable, and eventually she will as well.

Moreover, you might be expecting a bit too much.

I wouldn't next her for this reason by itself.

-E-Z