Ok so went out with one of my plates last night. 3rd time we've been out, had some good make out seshes up to this point, and the sexual tension is definitely building.
Prior to this point also we had met up at spots, but this time I picked her up from her spot. So when I took her back home we started making out and things got hot.
So she gave me the invite with that knowing look.
As soon as we entered we were full on getting it going, and I admit I was kind of rough with her, cause that is just my style and in my experience most of them want/like that, and right when I went down for her and was gonna start fingering her she got a little hesistant and was like wait, let's slow it down a bit.
So I didn't want to be that guy to make a big deal out of it, and I'm not one to force these things. Then we got to hooking up some more and she again mentioned wanting to slow it down and that we were kind of moving too fast.
And then, here's the kicker she confided in me and was really emotional like and said that she just doesn't want us to move too fast and to see it get f<cked up cause she really likes me. So I left it at that, hooked up with a bit more and laid with her some and she was seemingly appreciative and thanked me for staying.
It's also worth noting she paid for the outing that night, and was blowing me up with texts this morning asking how I was and to have a good day, etc.
Anyways, fellas what do you think the deal is here? Maybe she just got a little scared? Possible sh!t test? I ain't really tripping. Aside from this her actions show high interest otherwise, and things seemed to be left on good terms for her to be dtf very soon, if not the next time.
Any advice on how to proceed? Leave this alone and not bring it up, act non chalant etc.? Do you think I handled this well? Like I said I'm not one to force things, and nor do I beg for puzzy either.
Prior to this point also we had met up at spots, but this time I picked her up from her spot. So when I took her back home we started making out and things got hot.
So she gave me the invite with that knowing look.
As soon as we entered we were full on getting it going, and I admit I was kind of rough with her, cause that is just my style and in my experience most of them want/like that, and right when I went down for her and was gonna start fingering her she got a little hesistant and was like wait, let's slow it down a bit.
So I didn't want to be that guy to make a big deal out of it, and I'm not one to force these things. Then we got to hooking up some more and she again mentioned wanting to slow it down and that we were kind of moving too fast.
And then, here's the kicker she confided in me and was really emotional like and said that she just doesn't want us to move too fast and to see it get f<cked up cause she really likes me. So I left it at that, hooked up with a bit more and laid with her some and she was seemingly appreciative and thanked me for staying.
It's also worth noting she paid for the outing that night, and was blowing me up with texts this morning asking how I was and to have a good day, etc.
Anyways, fellas what do you think the deal is here? Maybe she just got a little scared? Possible sh!t test? I ain't really tripping. Aside from this her actions show high interest otherwise, and things seemed to be left on good terms for her to be dtf very soon, if not the next time.
Any advice on how to proceed? Leave this alone and not bring it up, act non chalant etc.? Do you think I handled this well? Like I said I'm not one to force things, and nor do I beg for puzzy either.