"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She Ignoring me?

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HollowHorizon

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Hey, Guys my Girlfriend was supposed to come to my house at 202 today, she dident stop by, I called her she said she was taking the late bus and she'd be down, i went to sleep she never came by, her cell seems shut off like it goes right to her voice mail and i messaged her a few times, no response.... Could this be bad? What Do you think?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah possibly, just keep it cool and don't act overly concerned, she'll think you're way too attached and needy. if she doesn't call you by tonight, then yeah, something is up...
 
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Maybe she's dead.

But more likely, she's lost interest in both you and in manners. When a chick tells me she'll be right over then turns off her phone, the relationship always ends very soon after.
 
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^^

Nothing gets my blood pressure up like a flaky girl.
 
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something might be wrong how long has she been acting like this? yea like that guy said if no call by tonight then something is wrong. dont call her tomorrow or maybe even the next. see what she does. if no call in two days call her up leave a message if she doesnt pick up and say well i guess its over have a nice life see you when i see you. thats all you gotta say. shell call you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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