"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She ignored me!!

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I was with some of my wing today. One of my wing was wearing an outragous funny 70s ourfit so we decide to go around and try to introduce my wing to people(girls) and we came up to one particular. I smiled at her being nice and everything but she ignore me not looking at me once! then one of her friends was right behind me so she walked pasted me to talk to her friend in which pissed me off cus I was being ignored! so I grab her at the elbow and was like "Hey!" she act as if she didnt hear me tho so I just let her go.

Any clue on what the hell this girl is thinking, taking and why she ignored me like that? She might be preppy because she is a 8+ but still ignoring me like that without even looking at me? chicks*sigh*:rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Distant Light

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she gave you an IOD

Also you chased after them, if you want to get a moving target to stop you speak to them and keep on talking, I've had girls walk across the street and comeback just because I've done that.
 
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Whats an IOD? Also I did try to talk to her but before I even finish "hey!" I felt like she didnt even knew I existed, I even held her by the arm tryin to get her to make a quick stop. Maybe my AFC self is coming back to me, Im not stressin over this tho but you guys think shes playin some sort of game? ...Its probaly some sort or routine or somthing to be on the pedestal. I dont know guys??
 

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Could be she was testing you because she liked you, or maybe her mother has cancer.
 

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Originally posted by þ†~VígøRóù§~
I was with some of my wing today. One of my wing was wearing an outragous funny 70s ourfit so we decide to go around and try to introduce my wing to people(girls) and we came up to one particular. I smiled at her being nice and everything but she ignore me not looking at me once! then one of her friends was right behind me so she walked pasted me to talk to her friend in which pissed me off cus I was being ignored! so I grab her at the elbow and was like "Hey!" she act as if she didnt hear me tho so I just let her go.

Any clue on what the hell this girl is thinking, taking and why she ignored me like that? She might be preppy because she is a 8+ but still ignoring me like that without even looking at me? chicks*sigh*:rolleyes:
Could be a test. If it was, you would have failed the test to be honest because you got mad about this. Remember, you're the prize....you don't "need" her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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sounds like this chick knows what she's doing. she totally ignored you and you took the bait. you're interested in finding out why she did that, right? she's got you thinking about her, even way after the actual event. you're hooked.

female dj, anyone? lol.
 

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Originally posted by Ace of Flames
sounds like this chick knows what she's doing. she totally ignored you and you took the bait. you're interested in finding out why she did that, right? she's got you thinking about her, even way after the actual event. you're hooked.

female dj, anyone? lol.
Yeah....she's definetly a Donna Juanita.
 
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SO so true so true lol, yea like I said im not stressing over this. You know what guys? since shes such a good dj I might take her out this weekend to a party to help me pick up chicks! I think ima gonna turn this girl into my wing lady lol.
 
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Or maybe she was just a plain B*tch and wasn't interested in you. Just move on if she likes you she'll come back if she doesn't think of it as her LOSS.
 

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yeah have you ever thought of it as, there might be something extreme going on in her life and she just doesnt want to deal with her rejecting you?

Because maybe she wasnt interested in meeting another guy and she just doesnt want to reject you (and "hurt" you) so she didnt answer you so that she wont have to even deal with you to begin with.

I wouldn't consider her a female DJ because she simply doesnt want to deal with AFC's (at least thats what she thinks). People have problems in life, and girls arent always avaliable to approach.

Also, make sure she doesnt have a boyfriend.


On the other hand... she could have just been a b!tch :crackup:

lol.. anyways, i suggest you just move on... if you keep trying to get this girl (to be your friend, or to be your girlfriend) you'll just keep hurting yourslef.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol NOw that you mention it she does have a bf! thats ok tho, she get in my head and I ant gonna let that go. I think Im goin to date her! lol
 
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