She hung up in my face,NEXT?!

[Fatal Jay]

Me in this chick been banging, dating, semi exclusive. She so far been a down ass girl.


She kept begging for me to see her this weekend, I told her I will be busy this weekend, she begs more, I tell her you act like your life depend on me. She tells me..."You know what, I'm going to get off the phone I feel tired"... I ask her was she mad, she says "I'm tired and I don't want to hung up in your face". I told her don't act like that don't....mid sentence of me talking she hangs up.

I'm pissed to the point I'm willing to throw this chick away. What do you guys think?

 

[Big Nuts]

Rachel Jenteal...is that you?

 

[Fatal Jay]

Lol, I bang hotties not jabba the hut

 

[ProDJ26]

Lmfao no big deal man it happens just bang her again shes testing you to see the response

 

[JoeMarron]

Hah make her ass wait until next next weekend

 

[penkitten]

let her stew in it for the night. deal with it tomorrow if it comes up.
I would bet that she was feeling upset that you had other plans and she wanted off the phone right then.... so you wouldn't fight and you wouldn't hear her being upset.
and come to think of it.... that's actually a good thing.
I am sure she will apologize for hanging up on you before the night is over or first thing in the am.
and although no one wants to be hung up on and disrespected.... it sure it nice to know she was smart enough not to pick a fight any further.

so there you go.

 

[Fatal Jay]

@prodj, I agree it is a $hit test, but this is no afc she is talking to.

@joemarron, that is a great idea which I know I will do.

@pairplus, she could be on her rag, but I'm tired of that being a excuse for women to treat men like $hit

@pen, I understand but being hung up on is very disrespectful

 

[LorenzoVonM]

Yeah hanging up on you calls for a freeze-out but you didn't handle the situation the best. I wouldn't next her permanently.

All you had to simply say is Sorry babe, I'm busy and cut the conversation short. Being busy is a perfectly valid thing and if she was butthurt then it was her problem. She would have gotten over it. You let her debate you and then provoked her by asking if her life depended on you. Then you further compounded things by asking if she was mad which was only going to lead to drama. So that's what this became, drama. Didn't have to go that route.

 

[March Fagness]

If you want to get rid of her, then get rid of her. But it sounds like a silly thing to get angry over. Ask yourself if she is worth it.

 

[TheCWord]

If I could play devil's advocate...

"I tell her you act like your life depend on me"

That's unnecessary. There's ****y, then there's being a ****. If you don't give a **** about a girl, feel free to say things like this and who cares about the consequences. But if you care enough about a girl that you make a post on SoSuave about them, don't be surprised if they split on you when you get too arrogant.

Being strong and confident is good. Independent is good. Not being too available and making them chase is really good. But none of that matters if you can't show respect to a human being.

This is a fail on your part, but hopefully you'll learn from this and pick yourself up, move on to the next one.

 

[escaleraroyal]

You should be more detailed when saying busy. e.g. I need to spend time with my parents, go to the hospital to see a friend, extra weekend work, etc.

 

[VladPatton]

If I could play devil's advocate...

"I tell her you act like your life depend on me"

That's unnecessary. There's ****y, then there's being a ****. If you don't give a **** about a girl, feel free to say things like this and who cares about the consequences. But if you care enough about a girl that you make a post on SoSuave about them, don't be surprised if they split on you when you get too arrogant.

Being strong and confident is good. Independent is good. Not being too available and making them chase is really good. But none of that matters if you can't show respect to a human being.

This is a fail on your part, but hopefully you'll learn from this and pick yourself up, move on to the next one.

^^I agree

 

[SeymourCake]

Maybe she was genuinely feeling tired and wanted to go to sleep?

 

[like2jam]

Yeah, you could have let her go when she said she wanted to get off the phone. You sort of provoked her. I think she actually did the right thing, hanging up on you. She went from being AFC to boss.