"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I ve neg hit one hb8.5 in class just a bit, yet she thinks I am pretty mean. I can tell that by her overall attitude. I wasn't even over-negging at all, but it pretty much did enough damage in there. Maybe she has low self-esteem, but normally she is very pretentious and very much used to every body liking her.

I have an upper-hand at this, because I definitely pick up a submissive vibe off her. How do I turn that around?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Neg's should be backhanded compliments... ambiguous, not easily dissected as a compliment or a slight "low blow"... not straight up down talking or insults. What did you say, exactly?

If she's pretentious and up on a high horse, maybe you're too "low on the ladder" in her mind to ever be saying anything like that to her. Depends on the dynamic between you two and what you said.

I'd honestly man-up and apologize if you really put your foot in your mouth. She'd respect you for that. It all depends on what was said, though. If she's just touchy and sensitive, then it's her problem.
 
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Regents halfback 22 said:
neg hits are stupid and do not work unless you think they work then you get rejected because they are stupid and do not work
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Dude, are you serious?
 
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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
If she's pretentious and up on a high horse, maybe you're too "low on the ladder" in her mind to ever be saying anything like that to her. Depends on the dynamic between you two and what you said.

I'd honestly man-up and apologize if you really put your foot in your mouth. She'd respect you for that. It all depends on what was said, though. If she's just touchy and sensitive, then it's her problem.
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What kinda talk is that, my friend? Are we regressing to AFC days?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Regents halfback 22 said:
they're insults, make it clear what you f-ing want retard durrrrrrrr
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Troll. Speaky english, eh? Are you able to put two words together at all? If you cant, I suggest keeping your arrogant sh!t to yourself, dimwit.
 
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flirt, genius
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Dumb reply, genius.

You must think that you are special, dont you? We all are...
 
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PapiChulo said:
What kinda talk is that, my friend? Are we regressing to AFC days?
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dude? Really? You think apologizing will make you AFC. WTF? In the context of having insulted her, you man-up and let her know that you"re sorry..don't dwell on that, though. Just a quick, simple apology.... It will shift the dynamic. But since you're not even telling us what you said, we cant even really help out.

If she's just a b!tch, who cares?

Otherwise, if you just piss her off, you're an ass, not a man...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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