That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next..... stop wasting our time5.) She is a virgin. I'm not after sex.
Exactly. On top of that, if she does cheat she'll lose credibility anyway. Seeing as she'll prove shes capable. Can you honestly say you'd trust her after that?Vypros said:She wants to cheat on her boyfriend with you, but she doesn't want it to be her fault, chief.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
If you want more than just "hitting it", isn't it a better strategy to just hang back and limit contact until she's not stringing two guys along?Vypros said:She wants to cheat on her boyfriend with you, but she doesn't want it to be her fault, chief.
that won't work, it'll work but as soon as she feels he's back in her trap she'll end up ****in him over again, rinse and repeat girls like this are headcases they need to realize that they are screwed up the ones that know they're screwed up have a head up on the ones that don't however it takes a lot of time for them to just drop the shyt and get down to what really matters..reset said:If you want more than just "hitting it", isn't it a better strategy to just hang back and limit contact until she's not stringing two guys along?
http://www.askmen.com/dating/doclove_200/238b_relationship_expert.html
What do you think of Doc Love's idea of just withdrawing?