"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She hasn't told me she isn't single.

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Hey guys, I need some advice from you. There is this girl that I recently met, and we seem to have hit it off. We have pretty different schedules, and haven't been able to hang out. But I have gotten her number. So in any case, I have heard from friends of mine, and a co worker of hers that she has a bf. She has never let me know that she has a bf though. She could have mentioned that when I got her number, or when I invited her to a club I have been wanting to go to. Her co worker tried talking with her but she shot him down immediately by saying she had a bf. Another one of my friends has seen her with her bf.....

So I guess what I am trying to ask is this, she has never mentioned her bf to me, and if those two guys would have not said anything, I would never know. Would it be wrong of me to continue gaming her? Thanks in advance.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Gatorade said:
Hey guys, I need some advice from you. There is this girl that I recently met, and we seem to have hit it off. We have pretty different schedules, and haven't been able to hang out. But I have gotten her number. So in any case, I have heard from friends of mine, and a co worker of hers that she has a bf. She has never let me know that she has a bf though. She could have mentioned that when I got her number, or when I invited her to a club I have been wanting to go to. Her co worker tried talking with her but she shot him down immediately by saying she had a bf. Another one of my friends has seen her with her bf.....

So I guess what I am trying to ask is this, she has never mentioned her bf to me, and if those two guys would have not said anything, I would never know. Would it be wrong of me to continue gaming her? Thanks in advance.
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There is this hot girl who I started hitting on a few months ago. She was always really nice, she gave me her #. She always called me back but every time I asked her out she was "busy" or she would "let me know". I asked her if she had a boyfriend, and she never gave me an answer.

I found out from other people she has a pretty serious boyfriend, but why didn't she tell me? I have a feeling because she is looking for a BBD, but I didn't play it right and she lost interest! My game wasn't tight enough to steal her away, but I could have because she opened herself up.

How's your game? They all have a boyfriend but can you make her like you better is the question.
 
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DonGorgon said:
MOst women have some guy(s) who thinks he is her man.... but it seldom matters when they are out hoing around
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From what I have heard and seen the girl I was hitting on is basically engaged to her boyfriend. And she still gave me her # and lead me on and refused to mention being taken or having any boyfriend.

If a DJ comes along and plays the game perfectly he could have her.

What does that tell you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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^^^tells me a ho is a ho is a ho..
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It tells me that I feel sorry for her boyfriend/fiancee. I won't get played like that ever again.
 
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Gatorade said:
Hey guys, I need some advice from you. There is this girl that I recently met, and we seem to have hit it off. We have pretty different schedules, and haven't been able to hang out. But I have gotten her number. So in any case, I have heard from friends of mine, and a co worker of hers that she has a bf. She has never let me know that she has a bf though. She could have mentioned that when I got her number, or when I invited her to a club I have been wanting to go to. Her co worker tried talking with her but she shot him down immediately by saying she had a bf. Another one of my friends has seen her with her bf.....

So I guess what I am trying to ask is this, she has never mentioned her bf to me, and if those two guys would have not said anything, I would never know. Would it be wrong of me to continue gaming her? Thanks in advance.
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How did you get her number? What was the context? Are you gaming her already, but are hesitant?

Wrong? Off course not. All chicks have a boyfriend, specially when convenient. She's looking to upgrade. If not with you, with someone worth it. So ask her if she's single, in a matter of factly way, while you're talking about something else.
 
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Thanks alot for all your help guys. I haven't updated because there was nothing to report. I have also been really busy with work. In any case, I have decided to proceed....The way I see it, if those two dudes would have kept their mouths shut, I wouldn't be having this problem. and like some of you said, she may be looking for an upgrade.

Anyways, to answer a Gangster of Love's questions.....I got her number when I was telling her about some club a friend had told me about....I asked her if she liked clubbing and she said no. I replied with that's a shame cause I was gonna invite you to come along. She immediately said yes and told me to let her know when I would be going. I took out a pen and a piece of paper and had her write her number.

Well when I was going to go to the club I rang her up(she gave me her house number, no cell phone) and she was not home. Next time she saw me she asked if I had gone, and why didn't I call. I didn't end up going(for other reasons, I was ready to go, but something came up) but told her I did anyways and offered a next time....She also said she wanted to invite me to this party she had gone to that same day I called, but didn't have my number so she got my number.

One thing I noticed, was that she used a line on me that I have heard alot of guys use on women "So what did you do this weekend? Did you hang out with your gf?"

A few things I have learned...Always always always keep a pen handy, and some paper too. not a blank one cause I think it looks kinda weird. You never know when your cell might be unavailable. But I have her number on a receipt(I had just bought some pants.) She also got my number on a piece of the box that gum comes in(the Orbit cartridge thing) Since she doesn't have a cell, she wouldn't have gotten my number otherwise. Another thing I learned is never let ANYONE discourage you from gaming a woman. If this deal would have happened even two months ago, I would have lost courage after those dudes told me she wasn't single.....But something inside me clicked this time and was like "Nah, if she wasn't available she would let me know" One last thing, Having a wingman is cool, but having a "wing girl", as she calls herself, is probably even better

Thanks for the words guys I appreciate it alot.
 
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