"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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She hasn't called back yet....call her again?

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mecca411

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Met this girl awhile back in December...waited too long so decided not to call her. Ran into her sis a few times who said she remembered me and that I should call. I called last Friday and got her machine. Left a message and she called me back on Sat aft, but I was out of town. I called her again on Tuesday and left a message. Haven't heard back from her yet. Should I call again tonight or this weekend sometime? Or should I just wait it out? Let me know.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I dont think you should have left messages on her answering machine. It makes you seem desperate. (I'm not saying that you are... thats just the way she probably sees you now)

Leaving a message on her machine was bad. I would have not said anything, and hung up (who cares if she has caller id?). Mistake made, no problem.... I would suggest that you refrain from calling her again. Let her call you. Remeber, you are the great prize. She should be begging to bask in your natural PUA aura. :D

If she doesn't call in a week, then, you can call. Though honestly, if she doesn't call you back, that probably means that

1. she wasn't interested in the first place. or
2. shes more interested in someone else....

Hehe, I had the same problem once. I still have this girls number, and I have'nt called her. At this point though, I think its a lost cause, so... she wont get to bask in my glory. :cool:
 
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golf299

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i absolutely dont think you screwed up by leaving a message...i have had great sucess leaving messeges.

you called her she missed it, she called you and u missed it. you called again and she didnt return your call. i would call her one last time saying something like "hey, xxx, i guess we're playing phone tag and you're it. give me a call back!"

if she doesnt call after that, forget her. honestly, i think her IL can't be high seeing as how its been such a loooong time since u've seen each other.

however, good luck mate!
 
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Does she have your number? -- YES

Does she know you called? -- YES

ANSWER: Wait for her to call you back while you focus on other women. If she wants you, she'll call. If she doesn't, she won't. It's that simple. Don't make it any more complicated than it is.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MVPlaya

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Wait for her call, if you don't get called, NEXT.

Btw., are you Muslim?
 
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