She has two called 'fvck buddies'

[Aerospace]

I'll try to make my long story short:

A) I've met her on the net. We had a nice alchemy, and in a relatively short time, she gave me her phone number

B) We spoke a lot on the phone over the last week, we got in touch with each other, and she is displaying a lot of attention towards me (a lot of very AFC messages on my phone), lots of e-mail

C) Things are 'evolving', it's easy to perceive it because of our discussions, that are becoming more and more centered upon sexual and romantic matters.

But tonight she made me a dismal confession... she has a pair of so called "fvck buddies"... she told me they are very handsome boys and they are good with sex too. They do not want to get involved in a serious relation with her, and they just meet to fvck now and then.

This jettisoned me into desperation. I acted cool with her, but she could feel my jealousy and told me that as soon as she understands that I'm that 'special boy', she'll forget her two 'particular friends'. But I feel I uncovered to much of my feelings towards her. Her AFC attitude, always so sweet, submissive, and mellow changed to something more arrogant, haughty and aggressive. Thrice during our last discussion she hinted that I could become no more than a friend (not even one of her fvck-buddies).

I feel like crap. I'm a very intelligent, charismatic and suave individual, but I am not as beautiful as the two guys that use to nail her when she grows bored sometimes. I don't know if I could ever have a chance with such a girl.

Soon enough, there will be her birthday. She invited me there. I bought a little present for her (quite cheap to say the truth, nothing too impressive)... That will be the first time I see her in the real world. I still don't know how to behave, the situation is becoming so complex, it's running out of my control.

To the best of my ability I tried to keep my cool. I think I succeeded, I never showed an apologetic behaviour nor I acted like a wuss. But I don't know if that will be enough.

Lend me a helping hand, my friends. I feel so fragile now, I need your opinion. Thanks in advance.

 

[Shiftkey]

Next time don't invest so much time and energy into a girl you haven't met yet. You're clearly chatting too much with her.

And you can count on her two fvck buddies being at the party.

 

[joekerr31]

women who bang multiple guys at once have basically given up on a real relationship.

they generally hate men and see them as only good for one thing - sex. they also get a kick out of knowing that a man wants them - but will never open themselves up to being hurt by a man emotionally.

why the hell would you want any type of serious relationship with this kind of woman. she's good for nothing else but as a FB. think of her as a hooker that you don't have to pay for.

anything else and you are asking for a world of pain.

btw, she's telling you about these other guys to clear her conscience. in her mind, you are now fully aware of who she is and what she is up to. if you get hurt from here on it, its your own fault.

J

 

[Boner da Stoner]

Originally posted by joekerr31
women who bang multiple guys at once have basically given up on a real relationship.

they generally hate men and see them as only good for one thing - sex. they also get a kick out of knowing that a man wants them - but will never open themselves up to being hurt by a man emotionally.

why the hell would you want any type of serious relationship with this kind of woman. she's good for nothing else but as a FB. think of her as a hooker that you don't have to pay for.

anything else and you are asking for a world of pain.

btw, she's telling you about these other guys to clear her conscience. in her mind, you are now fully aware of who she is and what she is up to. if you get hurt from here on it, its your own fault.

J

MEN who bang multiple women at once have basically given up on a real relationship.

They HATE women and see them as only good for one thing - sex. They also get a kick out of knowing that a woman wants them - but will never open themselves up to being hurt by a woman emotionally.

Why the hell would a WOMAN want any type of serious relationship with that kind of man? She would think he's good for nothing else but as a FB. Think of yourself as a hooker that she don't have to pay for...

It's fun!

BTW, you should be telling her about those other women to clear your OWN conscience. In your mind she is now fully aware of who you are and what you are up to. If she gets hurt from here on it, its her own fault.

Tell me where my logic is wrong please joekerr

 

[Aerospace]

I don't know. She told me she will be completely serious (which means no more fb) as long as she will find the one.

I feel she's being so gracious towards me. She's the one who starts all the phone calls and the messaging...

It's just that she turned out to be so different if compared to the innocent sweet girl I was imagining...

I'd hate to become one of her 'friends'. That will demonstrate that she does not esteem me worth at least as a potential fb (she used words of contempt to her 'normal friends', calling them something like 'stupid virgins')...

I'm so confused. I think she's offended after our last conversation. I won't send her a message or give her a call in a milion years. Let's wait and see how things turn out...

 

[Boner da Stoner]

**** man, I wish I had the energy to work this out for you... it's in her head... good luck trying to convince her otherwise, she's got to see it on her own terms. You can only HELP her notice.

TELLING her to stop seeing the guys won't help if she is smart. She might be a female DJ, and break it to you easily, she going to be out of your public eye and still **** em on the side... and slowly make you her FRIEND, than her DISTANT friend, than a LONG LOST friend, than finally a STRANGER friend... than if you still **** up she won't feel bad about you anymore.

I know I'm scaring you, the truth is scary... I sure wish that somebody takes the time to explain it... I just feel like being ****y today. I need to get laid tonight, so I'm not letting mey guard down.

I feel for you man! I've been in your shoes, but until you know WHY, I can't tell you WHAT!

 

[Aerospace]

As soon as you'll feel like explaining your opinion to me, make me know, I'm really curious about it Boner da Stoner...

Thank you in advance.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Is Italian culture a factor here? I know that the French and Germans are more liberal about sex. Normal behavior in one country can be ho bag behavior in another.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Aerospace
I'll try to make my long story short:

A) I've met her on the net. We had a nice alchemy, and in a relatively short time, she gave me her phone number

B) We spoke a lot on the phone over the last week, we got in touch with each other, and she is displaying a lot of attention towards me (a lot of very AFC messages on my phone), lots of e-mail

C) Things are 'evolving', it's easy to perceive it because of our discussions, that are becoming more and more centered upon sexual and romantic matters.

But tonight she made me a dismal confession... she has a pair of so called "fvck buddies"... she told me they are very handsome boys and they are good with sex too. They do not want to get involved in a serious relation with her, and they just meet to fvck now and then.

This jettisoned me into desperation. I acted cool with her, but she could feel my jealousy and told me that as soon as she understands that I'm that 'special boy', she'll forget her two 'particular friends'. But I feel I uncovered to much of my feelings towards her. Her AFC attitude, always so sweet, submissive, and mellow changed to something more arrogant, haughty and aggressive. Thrice during our last discussion she hinted that I could become no more than a friend (not even one of her fvck-buddies).

I feel like crap. I'm a very intelligent, charismatic and suave individual, but I am not as beautiful as the two guys that use to nail her when she grows bored sometimes. I don't know if I could ever have a chance with such a girl.

Soon enough, there will be her birthday. She invited me there. I bought a little present for her (quite cheap to say the truth, nothing too impressive)... That will be the first time I see her in the real world. I still don't know how to behave, the situation is becoming so complex, it's running out of my control.

To the best of my ability I tried to keep my cool. I think I succeeded, I never showed an apologetic behaviour nor I acted like a wuss. But I don't know if that will be enough.

Lend me a helping hand, my friends. I feel so fragile now, I need your opinion. Thanks in advance.

This woman is not worth your time. Tell her that you are going to focus on other women and next her.

When she says that she will forget about those 2 guys she is a liar. Any guy that has sex with a woman is always going to own a part of her.

Do not go to her birthday party. This girl is baning other guys and until she stops and proves to you that she isn ot a ***** you have no reason to show any interest in her.

SHE MUST PROVE HER WORTH TO YOU! at the moment you are just a sucker.

A woman must prove to you that she is not the kind of girl to have sex with many guys and keep **** friends at an arms length.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Stop wasting time with bi-tches that waste time with you! GOD, it's so simple fuc-kwads.

 

[SamePendo]

Next the byatch.

 

[Johnnie5]

Originally posted by joekerr31
women who bang multiple guys at once have basically given up on a real relationship.

they generally hate men and see them as only good for one thing - sex. they also get a kick out of knowing that a man wants them - but will never open themselves up to being hurt by a man emotionally.

why the hell would you want any type of serious relationship with this kind of woman. she's good for nothing else but as a FB. think of her as a hooker that you don't have to pay for.

anything else and you are asking for a world of pain.

btw, she's telling you about these other guys to clear her conscience. in her mind, you are now fully aware of who she is and what she is up to. if you get hurt from here on it, its your own fault.

J

what drugs are you smoking

women love sex just like guys do and need it and some girls are just as happy to **** whoever to satisfy their needs

this does not mean that they are not interested in a relationship , its just a matter of time till they find it

whats the solution to the original posters question ?

bang the hell out of her and find a new girl , chicks like this make you realise that you should be gaming several women a once

 

[Abbott]

One word:

Next!

Anything else and it'll turn into serious drama.


Ben

 

[AmIAFC]

From someone who's been there, next her.

You'll only save yourself future heartache and pain. In a way, female DJs are far superior in their "game" (if spreading your legs is what you call "game") than guys, since their confidence is continuously being reinforced by the plethora of guys (like you) willing to give them unequivocal and undivided attention.

I was once in your shoes, dealing with the same kind of chic. I did so many things, said so many things, that I thought came off as "slick" and "witty" but she saw through all of that and played the waiting game, waiting for me to snap. Then, I completely dropped my guard and did things that only confirmed to her that I liked her. Ridiculous.

Everything had to be on her terms. When I asked her out, she'd come up with a lame excuse as to why she couldn't go, but then when she initiated something, I would go along...only to get flaked on at the last minute. It was terrible.

Like the Monk said, don't sacrifice you time with people who are not willing to sacrifice theirs for you. These women, like the one you're dealing with, all think "short term." They, and the suckers who will end up marrying them, will be in for a rude awakening, while you'll be sitting on top of the world with a woman who'll treat you right (they're out there).

 

[Hunterchilla]

Originally posted by Boner da Stoner
MEN who bang multiple women at once have basically given up on a real relationship.

They HATE women and see them as only good for one thing - sex. They also get a kick out of knowing that a woman wants them - but will never open themselves up to being hurt by a woman emotionally.

Why the hell would a WOMAN want any type of serious relationship with that kind of man? She would think he's good for nothing else but as a FB. Think of yourself as a hooker that she don't have to pay for...

It's fun!

BTW, you should be telling her about those other women to clear your OWN conscience. In your mind she is now fully aware of who you are and what you are up to. If she gets hurt from here on it, its her own fault.

Tell me where my logic is wrong please joekerr

bro ur wrong its diff with men

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Hahaha,

To all you self-righteous cats in here, who say she's not worth it, and only sluts do this and she doesn't have the character, etc. etc. What, you think the girls you go out with, take on dates, are "talking to", etc. are not sampling other guys and getting laid while they decide if you are a worthy consideration? Stop stickin' your head in the sand.

Guys always asume they are the only ones. Its like a "don't ask, don't tell" type of thing, so women never mention who, and how many guys they are banging while she decides, or you both decide to be exclusive. And guys never ask, either they don't think women also sleep around, or they don't want to find out.

Every woman will keep sleeping with her ex until she finds something new, or until she definitely wants to stop seeing him for good. Gentlemen, don't kid yourselves.

To the original poster, forget about the fact that you haven't even met her and you have become her "online girlfriend." My guess is that this has happened, or it will keep happening to you if you don't sack it up. And btw, acting manly has more power than being a pretty boy. If a chick has to pick, he will pick the guy who carries himself better.

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Hahaha,

To all you self-righteous cats in here, who say she's not worth it, and only sluts do this and she doesn't have the character, etc. etc. What, you think the girls you go out with, take on dates, are "talking to", etc. are not sampling other guys and getting laid while they decide if you are a worthy consideration? Stop stickin' your head in the sand.

Guys always asume they are the only ones. Its like a "don't ask, don't tell" type of thing, so women never mention who, and how many guys they are banging while she decides, or you both decide to be exclusive. And guys never ask, either they don't think women also sleep around, or they don't want to find out.

Every woman will keep sleeping with her ex until she finds something new, or until she definitely wants to stop seeing him for good. Gentlemen, don't kid yourselves.

To the original poster, forget about the fact that you haven't even met her and you have become her "online girlfriend." My guess is that this has happened, or it will keep happening to you if you don't sack it up. And btw, acting manly has more power than being a pretty boy. If a chick has to pick, he will pick the guy who carries himself better.

:cheer:

 

[Tazman]

Every woman will keep sleeping with her ex until she finds something new, or until she definitely wants to stop seeing him for good. Gentlemen, don't kid yourselves.

Amen.

 

[j8snx1]

In a nutshell: save that gift for someone who's really worth it; to hell with this *****bag move on.

 

[Aerospace]

Let's give her a chance. I'm not 'Prince Charming'. I might actually enjoy having a 0-$ bytch to bang now and then.

I don't give a **** if she bangs another guys, don't get me wrong here, I'm starting to see her as just a bag of dirt. And that may be the way in which she wants to be treated, so I'm assuming I'm doing everything right.

Thank you 'Gangster of Love', yours may seem canned optimism at first, but I think the people here are kinda jealous or full of delusions when it comes to women's sexual freedom.

Thank you 'AmIAFC' too. I can see you've suffered. I feel it, man.

I shall go along Johnnie5's suggestion... it seems wise enough for me. I've got other female friends I should finish 'courting' before thinking about starting a romance life with this kind of vagina-on-demand.

A special thank-you to Penkitten: his ":cheer: " Was so full of insight, it actually made me cry my a$$ out.

Thank you people, you made my day.