"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She has no Soul

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"all's fair in love and war" is because love is like war. Just because a woman(or man) acts ruthlessly in that context doesn't necessarily mean they are a bad person or "soulless". It's just the nature of the beast.
A good analogy LA.

But before one enters that war, its best to be armed no?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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One first has to be drafted by the other party to enter the "war" that is "love". If anyone sees love as going to war they simply are weak and care too much about "losing" some "battle" with the opposite sex.

It's best for the weak and confused to sit on the sidelines playing armchair general.
 

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One first has to be drafted by the other party to enter the "war" that is "love". If anyone sees love as going to war they simply are weak and care too much about "losing" some "battle" with the opposite sex.

It's best for the weak and confused to sit on the sidelines playing armchair general.
You have a point and for some men, that's their reality.

Shouldn't they be properly 'armed'?
 

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Moderate right-wing and despise extremism. But we can agree to disagree.

I think those that are pushing the so-called ""merits"" of this very silly thread should explain the 10 merits of this thread in bullet points.

I'll even give you a 10% discount. Name 9.

Rando,

Can you name ONE thread in which you’ve provided constructive advice to a SoSuave member? It seems all you do on here is criticize others. You’re basically a full time whiny little bltch. It’s becoming tiresome.

Just one thread, and copy and paste it here. I’ll wait.
 

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Merely an exact mirror of the value mooch on page 1 aimed at the collective.

So what you are saying is that this way of conducting oneself is unnacceptable?

Is there anyone on SoSuave that understands what the heck this man is saying? You string a lot of big words together incoherently.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rando, Baccus, that's enough. Keep to the topic, there's enough bantering here to sidetrack the whole thread.

If there's a point either for or against then state it with some good content.
 
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