She has herpes but didn't tell me...

[TitanSS]

So I was messing around with this hb8 for about 2 weeks, we stop talking and then I found out yesterday she has herpes and didn't tell me. Wasn't using a rubber and she never once suggested that I do so....

I ask her about it, she tells me she does that shes so sorry and expects me to be mad at her blah blah blah. She thought it was only trasferable during an outbreak etc. I told her I would like to talk to her in person last night and she agreed. Texted her this morning and told her to come over tuesday or wednesday but I'm not sure what else there is to say.

I talked to my brother's fiance who is a nurse and she told me to wait two weeks and go take a piss test instead of an invasive test.

So as other mature guys do you have any other advice for me in this situation? I don't know for sure if I have it I just know she doesn't need to be on an outbreak for me to catch it.

Not asking you to out yourself if you have any stds.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Since most modern women are sluts who have seen more sausage than a deli... not having safe sex is idiotic. Always use a condom. A condom YOU bought not one she gives you. Its not just for STD's its also to avoid pregnancy.

Most women compulsively lie to the men they f*ck and give information out on a "need to know basis" --> You only NEED to know something when its in HER best interest.

 

[TitanSS]

Will definitely be using one from now on if it's not too late.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Calm down. I was married to a girl who had herpes for 7 years, never used a condom, and I'm fine. You probably are, too. The initial infection period is 2-20 days. And just fyi, condoms cut the transmission rate only by about 50%. It's spread by skin to skin contact, and not fluids. Avoiding sex during outbreaks is the key. She should be on preventative antiviral meds like Famvir if she keeps getting outbreaks. And if it were me, I would wash my d!ck after sex and also not fvck if you have a scratch, bug bite, or sore down there of any kind.

 

[TitanSS]

Calm down. I was married to a girl who had herpes for 7 years, never used a condom, and I'm fine. You probably are, too. The initial infection period is 2-20 days. And just fyi, condoms cut the transmission rate only by about 50%. It's spread by skin to skin contact, and not fluids. Avoiding sex during outbreaks is the key. She should be on preventative antiviral meds like Famvir if she keeps getting outbreaks. And if it were me, I would wash my d!ck after sex and also not fvck if you have a scratch, bug bite, or sore down there of any kind.

Thank you very much for the information. She did tell me she was on a lot of medicines for it.

 

[Driggs]

Get on acyclovir pronto, it might be early enough.

 

[Big Nuts]

A condom does not prevent herpes or genital warts as the base of the pen1s is exposed to the virus. It may decrease the incidence, but you are still playing with fire.

A condom does decrease chlamydia, gonorrhea and HIV though....but if ya knew she was HIV positive...would ya????????????

 

[GS750]

I'm pretty sure that anyone who knowingly has a transmittable STD and has sex with someone without telling them is committing a crime. So not only is it morally and ethically wrong, its also illegal.

 

[TitanSS]

Honestly I still had really bad oneitis for her until I figured this out. I still have that stupid feeling that I miss her in my subconscious, but consciously this helps me not want her for sure.

I'm pretty sure it is a crime, but turning her in wouldn't change whether or not I have it or really make me feel better honestly.

I have to wait another week to be tested without taking the invasive test... Once I find out if I test positive or not I'll be sure to let her know and give her a serious lecture on not telling her future sexual partners these things.

Seriously pisses me off that I even miss this *****.

 

[TitanSS]

A condom does not prevent herpes or genital warts as the base of the pen1s is exposed to the virus. It may decrease the incidence, but you are still playing with fire.

A condom does decrease chlamydia, gonorrhea and HIV though....but if ya knew she was HIV positive...would ya????????????

No. She's pretty damn hot so it's tempting, but I gotta get away from this *****.

 

[GS750]

Honestly I still had really bad oneitis for her until I figured this out. I still have that stupid feeling that I miss her in my subconscious, but consciously this helps me not want her for sure.

I'm pretty sure it is a crime, but turning her in wouldn't change whether or not I have it or really make me feel better honestly.

I have to wait another week to be tested without taking the invasive test... Once I find out if I test positive or not I'll be sure to let her know and give her a serious lecture on not telling her future sexual partners these things.

Seriously pisses me off that I even miss this *****.

I wasn't suggesting that you turn her in or try to sue her. My point is that this girl has got a major character flaw if she's fvcking men and not telling them that she has an STD. That sh*t is just not right. :cuss: Don't give a damn how hot she is to look at.

 

[TitanSS]

Character flaws no doubt. I always just seem to develop feelings for girls that reject me. Don't know if it's an ego thing for me or what. Don't know why I still miss her or if I just miss having a really attractive girl pursuing me.

She's definitely not long term material that's for sure.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

That is going to BLOW if you end up with the HERPS. Use this as your life lesson and ALWAYS WRAP IT UP.

My scare was chlamydia, luckily it's just a pill to clear it up. I still dumped that nasty wh0re, then on top of it she says her doctor tells her she's clean. WTF now you are going to lie some more? I knew I was in the clear and knew where my shlt had been. Her crazy bltch gf's tried blaming it on me as well. NEXT

GOOD LUCK MAN HOPEFULLY YOU ARE IN THE CLEAR

 

[TitanSS]

Next is right.

The problem with the herp is a condom doesn't mean you won't get it.. and it wrapping it up won't prevent infection from oral sex.

Thanks for all the insight guys.

 

[Desdinova]

So I was messing around with this hb8 for about 2 weeks, we stop talking and then I found out yesterday she has herpes and didn't tell me.

That's exactly how I caught it. It's one thing if they don't know they have it, but it's another if they know they do and fvck you anyway without insisting on a condom. On the plus side, it was only two weeks. I was banging the one who gave it to me for 9 months which highly increased my chance of catching it.

I'll tell you one thing though... if you happen to have it, it's not the end of the world. It's a mildly irritating skin disorder that shows up once in a while. If you take care of it with meds and a good diet, you'll be fine. In reality, the worst part about it is the initial outbreak which will fvck you up for about a month. After that, it's easy to deal with and it's not even lethal.

I talked to my brother's fiance who is a nurse and she told me to wait two weeks and go take a piss test instead of an invasive test.

A piss test covers chlamydia and gonorrhea. You need to get blood taken to test for herpes.

 

[TitanSS]

That's exactly how I caught it. It's one thing if they don't know they have it, but it's another if they know they do and fvck you anyway without insisting on a condom. On the plus side, it was only two weeks. I was banging the one who gave it to me for 9 months which highly increased my chance of catching it.

I'll tell you one thing though... if you happen to have it, it's not the end of the world. It's a mildly irritating skin disorder that shows up once in a while. If you take care of it with meds and a good diet, you'll be fine. In reality, the worst part about it is the initial outbreak which will fvck you up for about a month. After that, it's easy to deal with and it's not even lethal.



A piss test covers chlamydia and gonorrhea. You need to get blood taken to test for herpes.

She's been a registered nurse man. Several places online say it can be a swab, blood, or urine test. I'm trying to avoid the swab down by ****hole....

 

[Solomon]

A condom does not prevent herpes or genital warts as the base of the pen1s is exposed to the virus. It may decrease the incidence, but you are still playing with fire.

A condom does decrease chlamydia, gonorrhea and HIV though....but if ya knew she was HIV positive...would ya????????????

^^^THIS, what's even more scary is you could fucc a girl who doesn't know she has it on a ONS or something and get it.

It really has slowed me down some

 

[Desdinova]

She's been a registered nurse man. Several places online say it can be a swab, blood, or urine test. I'm trying to avoid the swab down by ****hole....

A swab is done by swabbing an open sore, not by sticking a long Q-tip down your d1ckhole. They did away with the d1ckhole test since they've improved the blood and piss tests.

 

[TitanSS]

A swab is done by swabbing an open sore, not by sticking a long Q-tip down your d1ckhole. They did away with the d1ckhole test since they've improved the blood and piss tests.

Oh thank god. I have no open sores yet and it's been over a week.

A friend told me about the ****hole test not the nurse.

 

[TitanSS]

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