SHE has BF and wants advice from me

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don Juan

Jul 6, 2003

That emotional tampon website kicks ass! The best is the one from the woman who wouldn't put out for two years, then was impregnated by some guy at the grocery store.

Definitely start working on the girlfriends. Besides, what do you get if her boyfriend is or isn't cheating on her. Drama is best saved for the stage or the screen; if it's not fun to watch, it'll be over in a few hours, and you can always get up and leave. If she asks for a male perspective, be brutally logical. As DSMask pointed out, if he's cheating, there's a reason behind it. Remind her that unless he intended her to find out about any supposed cheating, he wouldn't do it to spite or hurt her. This means the problem lies in THEIR relationship, not just on him.

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.