"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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she has alot of guy friends

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ok i met this girl who says that she gets along better than guys than wiht girls...from my experience (my x was like that) thats usually a no no...what do u guys think? and how would i keep her in check if we did get together? ur responses are appreciated thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KontrollerX

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Move on to someone else.

She is an attention wh0re.

The male orbiters are not friends but guys she will fvck behind your back.

Move on or just use her as a fvck buddy by pretending to give her a relationship if that is what she wants from you.

Just keep your emotions out of things and do not get attached to her and you will be fine.
 

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Whoa boy, you talking about getting together already? Slow it down. Unless shes going to be an ONS take it slow. Get to know her a little bit better first. Some girls are like that, I got a few girls who are totally chill, they play video games and talk about all kinds of stuff, like bashing on whoever is walking down the street, or whatever. But if shes an attention ho then you better ditch her before you get used.
 

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yea dude last 3 chicks i dealt with only had guy friends. they had like 1 or 2 girl friends and that was it. all attention wh0res. each one would say or they are just friends so dont worry. they are back ups for times when you are not around. you cant keep them in check really . i guess you can just walk away if you see something u dont like. basically its a big red flag.
 

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HUGE RED FLAG RUN RIGHT NOW DON'T WALK GET AWAY.

Honestly, the chicks I've dealt with who had a lot of guy friends probably weren't screwing them, but that doesn't change the fact that WOMEN WHO HAVE SIGNIFICANTLY MORE GUY FRIENDS THAN GIRL FRIENDS ARE ALL CRAZY. There aren't many things in life that I claim to be certain about, BUT THIS IS ONE OF THEM.

Warren Buffet's fortune wouldn't be incentive enough for me to get involved with one of these girls again.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Kontroller nailed it. listen to that guy. I know this type from experience.
 

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From personal experience, I'd stay the hell away. I'm not just preaching to the chorus here, I've had an EX who had a lot of guy friends and it's bad news. Why?

1. She's most likely ****ed/****ing/will **** at least 1 or 2 of them. Remember, most confident guys don't have friends for women unless they are useful for something (sex obviously).

2. She's not friends with women because they have shunned her due to her slutty activity. Most good women will not associate with a woman who is walking around stealing their men.

3. She's not friends with women because she can't commit to a friendship in which she can't sneak around and lie. When a woman enters a friendship, there is a bond of trust that most women can keep. This woman has some deep dark secrets that she is not willing to share, even with close friends. Her excuses for friends (guys), like I said are usually not good friends. Sure, she may have that gay male friend who is harmless, but if she has multiple guy friends who she frequently talks to and little to no female friends, bad news.

So I repeat - stay away! Even if only 1 of these is true (but I bet 2 - 3 are), that's enough to not start a relationship with this woman. Hell, I wouldn't even keep her as a FB. I can tell you have some sort of feeling for her so it's better for you just to get out. Don't be a sucker and fall into it and "see how it goes." I don't want to see your ass back here in 6 months crying about the guy you found out she was ****ing on the DL.
 

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aix237 said:
yea dude last 3 chicks i dealt with only had guy friends. they had like 1 or 2 girl friends and that was it. all attention wh0res. each one would say or they are just friends so dont worry. they are back ups for times when you are not around. you cant keep them in check really . i guess you can just walk away if you see something u dont like. basically its a big red flag.
And this too! Forgot this one.

While she may have a high IL for you now, when things go sour she will most definitely fall back on her guy "friends" for what you're not giving her. Whether it be fun, sex, etc. Like I said, women like this are afraid of commitment and that's why they can't commit to a legitimate female friendship with other women.
 
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