"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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He is away at school, 2nd / 3rd yr judging by age..
Been together for good amount.2 yr?

putting some pieces of the puzzzle together seems like they are growing distant.

shes a good catch. showing signs of interest.
doesnt ever bring up her boyfriend in conversation.

help..
this the time to reel in?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is the case for 99% of attractive women. For the most part just proceed normally and ignore him.

If she mentions him, talk him up. If she shows you a photo or FB tell her he's a good looking guy. Encourage her to talk about the things she likes about him (she'll project those feelings onto you), and how she met him. You're better off telling her to stay with him and to even be exclusive with him than asking or insisting for her to be exclusive with you.

NEVER tell her to dump him or seem to be criticizing him (she takes that as an insult to HER), but you CAN and should sabotage her feelings for him slowly but surely. For example you might ask "Where does he work?" and she might reply: "Well, he just graduated college..." (i.e., he's unemployed). Take his side in any debate. Plant ideas: "He's too young for you..." (and don't take her possible reaction personally should she flip out sometimes) then be patient and soon after you'll find her echoing those ideas back to you as if they were her own: "He was too young for me...".
 
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lol, and they say women are cold, calculating b1tches....
 
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i would just ignore conversations about him, otherwise you could end up being her therapist, and you dont want that. continue to build up her attraction and dont forget to physically escalate.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bigneil said:
This is the case for 99% of attractive women. For the most part just proceed normally and ignore him.

If she mentions him, talk him up. If she shows you a photo or FB tell her he's a good looking guy. Encourage her to talk about the things she likes about him (she'll project those feelings onto you), and how she met him. You're better off telling her to stay with him and to even be exclusive with him than asking or insisting for her to be exclusive with you.

NEVER tell her to dump him or seem to be criticizing him (she takes that as an insult to HER), but you CAN and should sabotage her feelings for him slowly but surely. For example you might ask "Where does he work?" and she might reply: "Well, he just graduated college..." (i.e., he's unemployed). Take his side in any debate. Plant ideas: "He's too young for you..." (and don't take her possible reaction personally should she flip out sometimes) then be patient and soon after you'll find her echoing those ideas back to you as if they were her own: "He was too young for me...".
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Solid, sage advice!
RACK HIM!!!
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surprisingly she has never brought him up in convo.

she was showing me pics on her phone, came across one of him, mumbled something and quickly continued.
good sign eh..?
 
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nice_guyeh said:
surprisingly she has never brought him up in convo.

she was showing me pics on her phone, came across one of him, mumbled something and quickly continued.
good sign eh..?
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well its a sign that she is a ho like most human females so enjoy your time with her and be ready to loose her when she is ready to give the next man his turn..lol
 
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