“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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YolaDaProducer

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so Theres this girl i like but she has a bf (hes a chump)
And she coming to my studio for an get togethe/date i also got her number but i dont know how to talk/how to start talking over text. im better in person.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think you cant call yourself a true DJ if u havent slept with a girl who already didnt have a bf. I mean if you really respect this girl, dont do it, but if shes keen...well your only human
 

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YolaDaProducer said:
so Theres this girl i like but she has a bf (hes a chump)
And she coming to my studio for an get togethe/date i also got her number but i dont know how to talk/how to start talking over text. im better in person.
I always advise against dating girls who have boyfriends because you would be inviting trouble by doing so. Additionally, if this girl is willing to cheat on her boyfriend, well then if you become her boyfriend, then you know that she will be willing to cheat on you for a more attractive guy.

However, to answer the core of your question, if you're better at talking to people in person, try giving her a phone call her. It will be way easier than texting and you will feel more comfortable. :)
 
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