She Has a Boyfriend

[Gibraltar]

I've been on SS for a few months now, and I'm beginning to work on my inner game to improve my results with women.

One of my biggest problems is a constant sticking point that I reach when going in for a close. A woman will always tell me either "I have a boyfriend" or "I have a man already." Even though I'm getting rejected/tested in some way, this is FAR better than what I used to hear: "Let's just be friends." So I feel like I'm making progress, but lack the understanding to deal with this test.

Any DJ got any advice on what's causing this reaction from women? and What can I do to overcome this sticking point?

 

[The Logical Player]

either way, you are being physically rejected, so why you gotta use some logic on this one - if you are always rejected when you give the girls the thought of being physical with you, then you need to work very hard on your looks and appearance

 

[Gibraltar]

You're right. I've had a skinny look ever since HS. I know it hurts my confidence because everybody else puts on weight so easily. I'm what you call a Hardgainer. Recently, I've been committed to training and eating a lot more.

Either way, I've got a long way to go. This journey should be fun! Thanks for the advice man.

 

[cali0]

Getting bigger would help, but i honestly think it's how you carry yourself. My friend is 5'8 and he weigh around 125 lb. He doesn't have problem getting girls. At least the girl told you they already have a bf. It's a lot better than getting their number then they tell you the truth or mess with your head. The best way to learn is through experience which is the hard way. LOL

 

[sozzz]

just wondering.. if a girl got a boyfriend.. what the chance of her getting with me..?

i just wanna see if i can steal her away from him for the fun of it and then i'll dump her... just wanna know do girls with boyfriends actually go out with guy friends or guys?