Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Jesus Fukking christ you are an AFC. Why don't you make a move instead of being a coward and trying to take it slow. When you make a move you'll instantly know if she just wants to be friends or not.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She has a boyfriend yet...
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Blue Phoenix
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This kind of behavior is familiar, VERY familiar to me. :trouble:
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
lol yea, the pole term is an old time favorite in E.C., but you're right. There's nothing wrong with admitting that you want her that way. You can even tell it to her face, if you say it right of course.