"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dust 2 Dust

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Jesus Fukking christ you are an AFC. Why don't you make a move instead of being a coward and trying to take it slow. When you make a move you'll instantly know if she just wants to be friends or not.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Blue Phoenix

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Originally posted by DJDamage
You got to understand that some women use guys like an accessory. Her boyfriend probably doesn't pay attention to her and only fvcks her. This b1tch needs attention and cannot stand being seen alone walking places. She gets her power by having guys follow her around without putting out and for some reasons alot of AW's get off on that. She is dressing up for you to give you hope, so you will stick around. Don't be surprised if one day she will disappear out of the blue.
This kind of behavior is familiar, VERY familiar to me. :trouble:
 

BlackJackal

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Originally posted by Gangster Of Love
Haha. Poler her??? I like that term. Perhaps if more of the guys in here stopped actin' like girlie men, and accept that they want to "pole" these chicks, there would be a lot less stress and confusion.
lol yea, the pole term is an old time favorite in E.C., but you're right. There's nothing wrong with admitting that you want her that way. You can even tell it to her face, if you say it right of course.
 
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