She has a bf

[LandingWood]

HB8 at work. A few guys have tried with her. On the first day I talked to a girl HB7 across from her but I gave her that look so she knew what was up. She eventually saw me and the other girl talking and joined in on our 20 questions game.

They both eat out of my hand. One dude went and asked if she had a boyfriend and then later went back and confirmed it I lol'd . I never asked her about her having a bf. We flirt every day there's kino and if we're talking I'll walk away and she'll follow still trying to talk to me lol She'll give me a look from across te room and wait for me to look back and smile so I know she's interested and she hasn't mentioned her bf to me yet other than her being around the girl I was baiting with but I pretended like I didn't hear it

The problem is I still haven't gotten her number because I haven't been able to think of a clever way to do it since she has a boyfriend. Any ideas on how to go about this?

 

[Skyline]

If she really has a boyfriend, is she worth stealing away? Remember once a cheater always a cheater. Then again she could have just said that to reject your friend. You should be thinking of a clever way to ask if shes actually single instead.

I would tread carefully especially since she works with you.

 

[LandingWood]

If she really has a boyfriend, is she worth stealing away? Remember once a cheater always a cheater. Then again she could have just said that to reject your friend.

I would tread carefully especially since she works with you.

Yeah I'm thinking that's why she said that too. An I know I'm not trying to lock her down cause I'm not trying to be locked down. She's just like me. Trying to get herself together. What could happen if she works with me?

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Once I find out a girl I like, am attracted to has a boyfriend already, I move on asap, but still feel jealous often times, I feel I can relate to Wolverines jealousy towards Cyclops often times

 

[LandingWood]

Once I find out a girl I like, am attracted to has a boyfriend already, I move on asap, but still feel jealous often times, I feel I can relate to Wolverines jealousy towards Cyclops often times

Well she's attracted to me too. She usually initiates conversation but it's hard to tell if it's just because we work together. That's why when she followed me after I walked off I felt like that confirmed it. She was trying to prove her worth to me. I think her bf actually came in once and I was at a register behind him and she seemed to act really non chalant about it.

 

[JohnChops]

Girls with boyfriends k. Here's what youdo. NEVER. Attempt to steal her away to date her, she cheats on him with you she WILL cheat on you. You can however bang her to your pleasure. Don't get feelings then move on when the times right. If you get feelings for her then just detach. Good luck, keep up the game on her and all will end in your favor.

 

[LandingWood]

Girls with boyfriends k. Here's what youdo. NEVER. Attempt to steal her away to date her, she cheats on him with you she WILL cheat on you. You can however bang her to your pleasure. Don't get feelings then move on when the times right. If you get feelings for her then just detach. Good luck, keep up the game on her and all will end in your favor.

Alright cool. Thanks for the advice.

 

[DonGorgon]

she will only use her uBF as and excuse not to F you if she does not really like you ... girls with BFs and married women cheat all the time.. they just tend to be more picky about it

 

[LandingWood]

she will only use her uBF as and excuse not to F you if she does not really like you ... girls with BFs and married women cheat all the time.. they just tend to be more picky about it

That makes sense. She told the other dude she had a bf but hasn't mentioned him to me. She asked me if she should buy a cd and I said if you like it buy it. She said I convinced her and this ***** really went and bought the ****ty cd. But she's deff feeling me. Gonna escalate tomorrow.

 

[Maximus Rex]

Don't f*ck with chicks you work with, especially ones with boyfriends.

 

[LandingWood]

Don't f*ck with chicks you work with, especially ones with boyfriends.

What's the reasoning behind this?
I figure Ill go to lunch with her and build more rapport then get the digits there that way I can initiate a hook up.

 

[nismo-4]

All women cheat.

All women have boyfriends.

All women have girlfriends. (Beta/AFC orbiters fall into this too)

If the boyfriend excuse comes up, drop her. She's not interested. And stop wasting time because you are likely in the friendzone. From here on, shoot first, ask questions later. That's the alpha way.

Case closed.

 

[JaegerPilot217]

Girls with boyfriends k. Here's what youdo. NEVER. Attempt to steal her away to date her, she cheats on him with you she WILL cheat on you. You can however bang her to your pleasure. Don't get feelings then move on when the times right. If you get feelings for her then just detach. Good luck, keep up the game on her and all will end in your favor.

If she's down for a bang then that's an exception

 

[JoshSway]

HB8 at work. A few guys have tried with her. On the first day I talked to a girl HB7 across from her but I gave her that look so she knew what was up. She eventually saw me and the other girl talking and joined in on our 20 questions game.

They both eat out of my hand. One dude went and asked if she had a boyfriend and then later went back and confirmed it I lol'd . I never asked her about her having a bf. We flirt every day there's kino and if we're talking I'll walk away and she'll follow still trying to talk to me lol She'll give me a look from across te room and wait for me to look back and smile so I know she's interested and she hasn't mentioned her bf to me yet other than her being around the girl I was baiting with but I pretended like I didn't hear it

The problem is I still haven't gotten her number because I haven't been able to think of a clever way to do it since she has a boyfriend. Any ideas on how to go about this?

You just go about your business as if she didn't have a boyfriend. In general, I do not recommend gaming girls who say they have bf's because it is much lower percentage than girls who don't say that, but in this case, it seems like she never mentioned her bf to you so it's different. Forget about the bf even existing and just play on as you normally would (assuming what you normally do gets you laid

 

[LandingWood]

You just go about your business as if she didn't have a boyfriend. In general, I do not recommend gaming girls who say they have bf's because it is much lower percentage than girls who don't say that, but in this case, it seems like she never mentioned her bf to you so it's different. Forget about the bf even existing and just play on as you normally would (assuming what you normally do gets you laid

This is what I figured. Just treat it like she doesn't have a bf.

The first guy came on strong and fast by asking about her bf. He didn't leave any room for her to guess what his intentions were. With me I lead her on but not too much and right when I start to peak her interest I walk away and leave her guessing. I'm excited to see how this plays out especially with her following me around like a puppy dog

 

[Maximus Rex]

What's the reasoning behind this?
I figure Ill go to lunch with her and build more rapport then get the digits there that way I can initiate a hook up.

Before we proceed, I need to ask you the following questions:

1) Do you need your job?

2) Do you like your job?

3) Is the field you're in now your chosen career path?

 

[LandingWood]

Before we proceed, I need to ask you the following questions:

1) Do you need your job?

2) Do you like your job?

3) Is the field you're in now your chosen career path?

1 - Yes
2 - Yes
3 - No

 

[Maximus Rex]

1 - Yes
2 - Yes
3 - No

Two words, "Sexual," "Harassment,"

 

[LandingWood]

Two words, "Sexual," "Harassment,"

Not if my game is tight

 

[Pimp-sicle]

As long as you keep your eyes on the prize & don't catch feelings, gaming girls with bf's and or at work is a very rewarding process.

If your game is sloppy or you tend to catch feelings quickly, then I agree its a bad idea.

Wood: Why are you so concerned with getting her #? If she is already showing interest, following you around etc; escalate! Ask her to hang out one night after work & see how she reacts.

If she has strong interest she will find a way to go out with you & then its game on.

Getting her #, then proceeding to start texting her etc is just another obstacle to getting her out 1 on 1. You work with her, you see her several times a week. Escalate the situation in person, its much more powerful to her attraction buttons & will give you a better idea of whether she is just getting her attention kicks off you or has true interest.











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