"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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she has a bf.

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jakeyboy

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Yes, hello my fellow DJs!

It's great to be back after a rather long hiatus, and i'm sorry it has to start with "SHE HAS A BF". I know, rather AFC of me... but I'm pretty clueless when it comes to this because I've never actually tried anything with a girl who was already taken.

I guess in this case it's quite different because he's a fvcking loser. I mean seriously. When she heads out for lunch with her friend, he goes like "So you've got your friend, don't need me anymore do you?" What kinda freak does thaaaat?!

Anyhow, I got her to my place, had a few drinks and we started making out and it got kinda got and heavy. And then her bf came to pick her up from my place. Which is sooooooooooo ironic. Unsuspecting foool indeed.

But she hasn't broken it off with him yet, she's playing real hard to get, she flirts like anything then suddenly shows little interest in me. Man, what a messer.

Any suggestions guys?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bluemanson

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I agree with the big cheese.

Leave her ass alone unless you want her all to yourself.
i have been in this situation before and it is so not worth it
 
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